laura_friesen
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Sex In the Bum Bum Lol..
Posted: 03-09-07 17:22pm
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alrite, im totally turned off about sex in
the bum? Like..you take a shyt outa there
why would you wana put his dink in there
ahh! anyways, my guy wants to try it
really bad but im scared its gunna hurt
soooo bad cuz one time he got it in that
hole instead of the vagina and it went in
really fast and i cried for like 30 min.
like does it feel like normal sex
or..sorry im just really confused about
the whole subject. plz explain to me 
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Zanny
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Posted: 03-09-07 17:31pm
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For me the first time wasn't very
pleasant.. but after that it got better.
The first few times we did it we didn't
use lube, and now that we do it's a *lot*
better. I used to hate the idea of it
too.. and I still don't understand why
it's such a turn on to some guys.. but
meh.. I do enjoy it now so I don't mind
him pestering me about it!
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 03-09-07 17:33pm
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i would not do it i know someone who did
and for the next week she could not
control her bowel movements.
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arcadia
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Posted: 03-09-07 18:00pm
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i've tried it once (not with with .chris)
& i really didn't like it very much...
but like .zanny said she didn't like it at
first, either. chris really wants to try
it.. its a huge turn-on for him, too. i'm
not to keen on it..
if you're going to try it, make sure
you've gone poo before you do it, &
make sure you use lube!!!!
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 03-09-07 18:07pm
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lol this is nashtay.
Robs the same way.. and i refuse lol.
thats an exit not an entrance.
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Bridget
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Posted: 03-09-07 18:12pm
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i tried it once and it wasn't bad but it
didn't leave me wanting more.
i didn't even get a chance to get into it
because the whole time i was worrying that
when he pulled out there might be poop on
him. ew, right? (there wasn't)
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 03-09-07 18:15pm
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ewwwwwww thats what i would be
thinking....hope there is not sh*t
everywhere
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Kia
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Posted: 03-09-07 18:18pm
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we tried...
it doesn't fit
like not even a tiny bit that would give
if you kept trying.
it simply does not fit at all.
kinda like the square peg in a round hole
problem... not that he has a square willy
you understand lol
so we gave up the idea
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 03-09-07 19:23pm
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| Kia
wrote: |
kinda like the square peg in a round hole
problem... not that he has a square willy
you understand lol |
rotflmfao!!
Square winkie...
*~*giggles like a school girl*~*
you said willy....
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laura_friesen
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Posted: 03-09-07 19:38pm
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| IHeartMyBostonTerrier
wrote: | i tried it once and it
wasn't bad but it didn't leave me wanting
more.
i didn't even get a chance to get into it
because the whole time i was worrying that
when he pulled out there might be poop on
him. ew, right? (there wasn't)
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lol that is SO my worry too lol
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laura_friesen
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Posted: 03-09-07 19:39pm
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ya i dont know i mean i'll do it for him i
guess i'll try just use lube and see wat
happens. i brought out the chocolate sauce
the other night for the first time hehe
that was fun!!!! 
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Ingi
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Posted: 03-09-07 20:10pm
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Something to think about - never insert
anything from your 'bum' back into your
vagina. You can get a serious infection.
I am aware a lot of you will say, "Duh"
but there are some people who don't think
that the 'willy' needs a washin before you
use it again.
The same goes if you use sex toys. Always
keep them clean to prevent infection and
other icky things (like bladder
infections!).
Use lube and go .S.L.O.W. If he is gentle,
it will be ok.
Have fun!!
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 03-09-07 20:14pm
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ok....ummm i like it for the most
part.......lube lube lube is all i have to
say and tell him that if he doesn't take
it slow and if he doesn't listen to and
isn't sensitive to you that u will take
it off the table. it's something that you
and ur husband need to take your time with
and work your way into it. it's not
something to do fast. you can always give
yourself an enimina (sp) to kinda clean
yourself out.
Advise your husband that slow is the key.
also keep in mind that going from the
front to back is fine. but going from the
back to front can open you up for
infections and stuff. so also cleanness
is good thing.
Good luck love.
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Bridget
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Posted: 03-09-07 20:24pm
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also, it would probably help if he fingers
you there first to kind of loosen you up a
bit. maybe while he's going down on you or
something.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 03-09-07 21:30pm
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this is turning kinky..
lol and a lil inappropriate.
But we shall see
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 03-09-07 21:38pm
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Wow.
Umm, never tried it. He asks, I refuse.
End of.
If he wants lovin, he can have a bunny. Or
his hand. Or air. Mmhmm. 
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Mommy35
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Posted: 03-09-07 22:11pm
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Yeah, lube lube and more lube. I know
what worked for me was I was the one in
control of how fast it went in. I backed
myself up to it and put it in at my own
speed. I told him if he pushed it in at
all I would squeeze my butt cheeks and rip
it off. LOL 
It wasn't anything I'd beg for, but it
wasn't that bad. You have to be relaxed
and he needs to be gentle. If your tense,
it hurts like a mother.
Good luck, I hope you enjoy it
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arcadia
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Posted: 03-10-07 01:58am
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lol, how is this inappropriate? just
because it's gross doesn't mean it doesn't
happen! nobody is being vulgar! :p
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 03-10-07 07:17am
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Sandy love, it's perfectly natural. I see
nothing wrong with it.....but i don't see
anything wrong with a lot of things. LOL
Sex is sex in the bum or not.
I guess i want to be a sex therapist and
so sex is a natural thing for me.....but
also the same reason i didn't use anything
sexual in my post.
hehehe it was the others that were
getting graphic. ahahah
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 03-10-07 11:11am
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i have never tried this.. i dont know if
its because i feel its gross or maybe its
because i am scared... my man is the same
as yalls.. he wants to do this to and
always makes comments, but i have never
allowed it..
i guess just call me prude with 6 children
hahaha
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