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Ashley91
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 03-10-07 11:34am
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Hun i'm 15 and 25 weeks pregnant so it can
be done and all is not lost. As far as i
know a cold can't effect your cycle only
things a bit more serious. It is worth
taking a test because it's the only way
you're going to find out unless you want
to wait 40 weeks and pop a baby out.
Running away is not a good idea at all,
there will be no way of you supporting
yourself or a baby if you're living on the
streets. Also who gives a damn what people
think of you, only what you think of you
matters. No parent is pleased when their
teenage daughter gets pregnant but at the
end of the day they are your parents, they
made you and looked after you and love
you.
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Ashley91
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Posted: 03-10-07 11:41am
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How did you tell your parents?
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 03-10-07 11:45am
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Well i personally just came out with it to
my mum, there's no easy way of telling
your parents but it has to be done so when
she wasn't busy i just stopped her and
said 'mum i really sorry but i'm pregnant
we didn't plan it i'm sorry etc'. I've
always got on better with my mum so i got
her to tell my dad because she thought it
would be best because she knows how to
talk to him better than i do.
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Ashley91
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Posted: 03-10-07 11:50am
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Thank you so much. It makes me feel
better hearing it from someone like you.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 03-10-07 11:51am
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It's ok hun. How would you boyfriend be if
you are pregnant?
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 03-10-07 11:54am
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Ashely, yes....being sick .c.a.n affect
your period. There are a number of things
that can delay a period.
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Ashley91
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Posted: 03-10-07 12:01pm
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I really hope I'm not pregnant right now
and everything is a coincedence. I wanted
to wait until I was at least almost done
college.
My bf said to punch myself in the stomach
real hard if I was pregnant.  I yelled at him
for it. It's so wrong. =[ I hope he was
joking
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Dannzibelle
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Ashley91
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Posted: 03-10-07 12:09pm
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I know. I would never do that.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 03-10-07 12:12pm
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I hope to god that no one would ever do
that. If he's having that kind of reaction
now when you don't know if you are or not
then what would he be like if you were?
Also because you said you can't get a test
for a while do you live near a doctors
surgery or hospital because they can test
you for free, and most doctors could see
you pretty soon on a emergency
appointment. Is your boyfriend the same
age as you?
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Ashley91
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Posted: 03-10-07 12:21pm
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I live in the middle of nowhere,
surrounded by lots of land. My boyfriend
just turned 18, I turn 16 this summer.
I'm so afraid that he'll leave me if I am
pregnant.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 03-10-07 12:24pm
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Oh, i was just saying because i live near
a samll hospital which i know gives out
tests, not much help for you then. Well
hun all i can say is if he did then would
he really be worth the worry if he can't
live with the consequences of his actions.
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Ashley91
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Posted: 03-10-07 12:31pm
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Lol. That's so lucky for you. I can't wait
until I know for sure if I am or not.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 03-10-07 12:34pm
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If you don't mind me asking why is it you
can't take a test until later?
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Ashley91
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Posted: 03-10-07 12:40pm
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I don't want to tell my parents right now
because theres that chance that I'm not
pregnant. My bf can take me to get a test
later. I would do it today if I wasnt
sick. Haha. He told me to stay home and
get better this weekend. Normally we go
out and do stuff.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 03-10-07 12:41pm
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I see your point i would of never told my
parents if i only thoguht i was pregnant,
too much argro for nothing. Couldn't he
get one and bring it to you perhaps? Check
you pm's
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Posted: 03-10-07 12:53pm
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| Dannzibelle
wrote: | | Also because you said you
can't get a test for a while do you live
near a doctors surgery or hospital because
they can test you for free, and most
doctors could see you pretty soon on a
emergency appointment.
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this is not how health care works in the
states.
i think planned parenthood will test her
for free, but you can't just go to the
hospital and request a test.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 03-10-07 12:57pm
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| IHeartMyBostonTerrier
wrote: | | Dannzibelle
wrote: | | Also because you said you
can't get a test for a while do you live
near a doctors surgery or hospital because
they can test you for free, and most
doctors could see you pretty soon on a
emergency appointment.
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this is not how health care works in the
states.
i think planned parenthood will test her
for free, but you can't just go to the
hospital and request a
test. |
Oh i see because at most hospitals with a
minor injuries dept in the uk have a
family planning clinic along the same
parrt of the hospital
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Lauren_Jay
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Posted: 03-11-07 10:10am
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Hey, just wanna back up what Dannizibelle
said. I'm 15 and 13 weeks pregnant, I've
found it ok. Whatever happens, we'll all
be hear for you. 
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I've
only had sex once and it was between mid
and late February. It was protected for
the most part but I think there was an
accident somehow. I was never put on the
pill and I know things can go wrong so
easily. We're both afraid that I could be
pregnant. I missed my period for the
month of February and we're now in March.
