Really Embarrasing Question About Ttc Posted: 03-13-07 23:29pm
okay I'm new here but not new to the ttc
department.
In my first marriage we spent several
months ttc and had 2 misscarriages, I then
had a healthy baby boy who is now 19
months old. I am now engaged to a
wonderful new man. We are very happy
except when it comes to ttc its proving
harder then we had expected.
My DH has a problem ejaculating from
intercourse
Not that its embarrassing to me, I know it
would be to him. So we talked about it
with friends who also had TTC problems,
they said that they used a not so medical
way to solve the problem. Here is the
story she told me.
" You know those plastic depositories that
come with Vaginal creams...okay use one of
those and this is how you do it. When you
are having sex, and he gets close to the
goal have him do it in a clean plastic
cup. Then use the depository to put the
semen inside of your vagina."
She said she laid on her back while her
husband injected it into her vagina and
she would lay there for 10 minutes with
her feet up.
I have heard of laying down with feet up
to help increase your chances but it
seemed a little "weird".
We did try this method. We still have 6
days to see if it worked or not. My only
concern is.... This is the embarrassing
part lol, My husband can only ejaculate
with oral sex.... and lets just say it
came out before it went in the cup lol.
Can my saliva harm or cause infertile
sperm? Can air harm the sperm? That was my
draw back when our friend suggested the
method was that the air might corrupt the
sperm. We know my husband is fertile, and
I am fertile also. Its just the matter of
him not being able to ejaculate from
sex.... Its so frustrating and I try to
work with him and come up with new ideas
blah blah blah but.. nothing seems to help
get him to the goal other then oral sex.
What do you all think??? I know this post
is rather gross and maybe TMI so sorry
ladies.
Lots of baby dust!!!!!!
Rebekah
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 03-14-07 01:11am
Sperm can live just fine in the open air
as long as it is kept moist and warm. So
if the semen was still wet, the sperm was
probably fine. No worries there.
Saliva also would not hurt it. It would
be the same if he gave you oral sex before
sex. Then you would have a mixture of
saliva and semen in that situation too. I
have yet to hear of any problems due to
that.
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bekaM
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 10 Location: Ca
Posted: 03-14-07 11:30am
Thank you.. You have no idea how much
information I read online about this and I
was much more confused after I read about
it then before lol.
Thank you... Now I guess I will start the
2ww well, 5 day wait for me.
Not that its embarrassing to me, I know it
would be to him. So we talked about it
with friends who also had TTC problems,
they said that they used a not so medical
way to solve the problem. Here is the
story she told me.
