Advances- Opinion's From the Ladies! Posted: 03-14-07 21:22pm
Now here's the problem with me. I'm 17,
pretty decent looking guy and all, but I'm
only managing to get girls on one nights
and crap, it's fun after a while, but now
I want to be involved in a relationship. I
want to have a girl by my side, sending
time with her, supporting each other when
ever needed. Now there are some girls in
my school that I suspect like me. There
are some things I notice, but I just
wonder "is this just a coincidence?" I'd
like to know from the girls here what kind
of advances who guys make towards guys you
like. What are some good indications you
make? Look at him, brush your hair in his
direction, etc.
Last question. After the advances and
signals, and I get a good indication, I do
I start it off? She doesn't no me or
anything, never talked before, what would
be the best thing to do? Introduce myself
politely? Make a joke? Any helpful tips
will help me greatly. Thanks!
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futureSeX
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2007 Posts: 14 Location: Canada
Posted: 03-21-07 15:32pm
wow, you guys are soooo helpful. Thanks a
bunch!!!
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mc4ever02
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Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 3636 Location: Orlando, FL Usa
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Posted: 03-21-07 20:41pm
Sorry that I can't really help you.
Growing up, every time a guy hit on me I
assumed (correctly) that he wanted to get
into my pants. My husband had a great
since of humor. That is the first thing
that attracted me to him. So, if you can,
I would suggest opening up with a joke. As
for wanting a relationship. I am trying to
figure out how to put this politely. Maybe
the reason you are only having one night
stands is because that is the type of
girls you are attracted to, or the easiest
to get with. I suggest going in a
different direction that your usual
"type". I did and wound up with a
wonderful man.
Again, sorry that I couldn't be of more
help. Good luck!
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The Godly One
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 76
Posted: 03-22-07 22:52pm
As long as you know you will not fail, you
will not.
You can use any style you want, but if you
are worried - even a tiny bit - about not
getting what you want, the female will
easily see this.
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Fairy*Godmother
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Oh to Be Young One More! Posted: 03-23-07 23:15pm
I would first find an individual who you
can actually sit and talk to...never run
out of things to say. SOmeone who has
similar interest that you do. Looks are
not everything in this world.
Communication is key. Find something you
both enjoy doing and take it from there.
Ask this person if she would like to join
you going to such and such. If you find
someone you are attracted too, go up and
talk with this person to find out what
they are like. Aks if the like to maybe go
out for lunch or a walk around the par.
Someting that is safe and public. That way
she will not feel pressured or
uncomfortable in the situation. If she
says no thank you, move on to the next
lady......there are thousands you jsut
have tofind hte correct one! Go to places
you enjoy like book clubs, museums,
certain movies, historical
events...whatever it takes to find someone
who will have similar interest. You can
alwasy meet in a nice park and engage in
converstaion, run along pick up some
chicken and continue with a picnic...just
some suggestions for meeting a decent girl
and not running her off thinking all you
want is a trip into the party pants. Hope
this helps and Good Luck!
