Joined: 15 Mar 2007 Posts: 12 Location: northeast england
Torn Inbetween Two Men Posted: 03-15-07 05:26am
Last summer i met someone who i was crazy
about it was the most touching and loving
relationship i had ever encounterd, it
soon ended due to our work and
lifestyles.
I was crushed and never got over him,
nights out we would often bump into each
other and it soon turned into awkward
circumstances and he was seing another
woman. After christmas i had not seen him
in a good while no accidental meetings,
days did actually go by when he wasn't on
my mind. (the odd day) One night out i met
a lovely chap we automaticly bonded with
the same silly (drunk) sense of humor. we
started seeing each other, until i
realized he was friends with that summer
love of mine. although he was with someone
else and didn't seem to give a damn about
me i still felt i was some what cheating.
But the new chap announced he was
planning on going back to uni in warric in
a few weeks, so surly not having a lonely
christmas wouldn't be that bad? My summer
love probaly wouldn't find out in this
short time, not that i thought he'd care.
so i stayed with the hansome chap i met
down the local until he left for uni and i
was back alone but phycoticly pleased my
summer love hadn't found out however
insane this sounds now. The chap i met who
had gone to uni came back the week after,
bailed out of it and we are still together
now.
Only about a month ago my summer love
found out and i found out he was only with
his girlfriend for a few weeks, hes
recently declared his love for me and how
he wants a real relationship this time.How
I've always been on his mind, it was like
he quoted my feeling for him but to me.
i love him more than iv ever loved anyone
and weve been meeting up constantly iv
told him i will leave the chap im with now
for him.
i thought it would be easy but its not i
really care for this chap and he has no
idea of anything, so naive and sweet
giggling speech about our future together,
planning things for us i would have been
thrilled about a month back. everythings
happend so fast im so confused and scared
i really dont want to lose my summer love
again, but i adore and look forward to my
short term future with my current chap.
please someone help me, critise me until
you turn blue i know its my fault im in
this situation, but either way someones
going to get hurt....
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enigmagnetic
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Joined: 10 May 2007 Posts: 8 Location: ,
Advice Posted: 06-24-07 15:51pm
This is a tough one. The best way is
always the most difficult. In my opinion
you have to give yourself time to think.
Take a break from both of them. A few
months alone will not kill you. You sound
like you have a hard time being single.
If that's the case you need to be single
for a while. Once your head is clearer
then you should be honest with both of
them. If they are not around or unwilling
to speak with you, then was it really
meant to be? As far as fault forget about
it. One can't predict where your heart
will lead you because as we all know love
is irrational yet beautiful. Good luck.
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Just_a_boy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Aug 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Poland
Posted: 08-04-07 03:14am
dear saz
maybe it's not what U want to hear.. but u
can't think bout yourself only.. look.. U
had summer love that was nice for U ok..
then he found himself another one, U began
relationship with new man.. think bout
them.. how they feels? U & your summer
love just play with them ? please do the
things that way, that U could look in a
mirror and don't feel like U hurt anybody
and yourself too.. specially your recent
boy.. couse summer loves acts unmature in
my opinion..
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butterflyprincess
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2007 Posts: 6 Location: ,
Difficult Desicion.. Posted: 08-07-07 18:27pm
God, i know exactly what you're going
through. The same thing happened to me and
i had no idea what to do until one of the
guys started beating me.. And obviously i
left him soon after that. Now im still
with the other guy, perfectly happy as can
be
But in this situation i think (sound
really corny but) you should follow yout
heart and your gut.
You could be thinking about things in the
long term or short term but then you might
end up making a mistake and wishing you
chose the other guy..
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