Guys are weird lol. A few weeks ago, my
boyfriend was acting weird. Just the way
he was talking seemed kinda mean, like he
was stressed out, and he said he was so I
shrugged it off. A few nights later, I was
in his room at college and I saw a convo
between him and his friend on his
computer. I saw my name and couldn't help
but read. He basically complained about
me, said some kinda mean things about me.
Said I'm putting off college so I can
marry him(not true) and all i wanna do is
marry him. I was in shock. He told his
friend he might want a break, he doesn't
know. I wanted to cry. I didn't tell him I
read his convo cause I didn't want him to
get mad. That night he was acting fine,
cuddling with me and stuff. I was
confused.
He's beein acting fine since then. More
back to himself now. Says he loves me,
etc. He did say he was stressed that week.
I feel like things are back to normal. I
told him I know I can be annoying, but I
don't mean to. He said he knows. I talked
to his friend about going to the college I
wanna go to so maybe he sees that I am
trying.
Maybe he's fine with everything now? I
just don't know why he said all that
stuff.
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flipper
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Posted: 03-16-07 18:31pm
He was probably just venting. I know that
if I get really mad at my husband, I'll
call my friends or my mother sometimes and
just let it fly! LOL. It was just how I
felt at that one particular moment though,
and didn't mean it. Still, might be a
good idea to just ask him how he feels,
and see if there's anything he wants to
discuss with you. (He'd probably be pretty
mad about you reading stuff on his
computer. I know I'd be upset if my
husband peeked through my journal or
something.)
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DPantelones
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Posted: 03-19-07 13:57pm
You're going to have to forget what you
read and like ^^ said, just know it was
venting and that's healthy....you were
never supposed to read that stuff.
Relationships are hard enough without
throwing in some trust issues, so just
forget what you read and dont' tell him
you read it )
)