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Curious.. Posted: 03-18-07 21:34pm
i kno i this topic prolly shouldnt b in
this forum but i wanted to ask u girls...
have you ever considerd asking your babys
daddy to marry you (for the girls who
wernt married/engaged when they got preggy
and r still involved with the daddy) i
feel like shawns never going to do it, so
im kinda thinking about trying to do
something cute and serious and ask shawn.
or do u think i should just wait... i
think shawns kinda overwhelmed about
asking me. i kno he wants to do it
romanticly and spontanious and i kno he
has no clue in what ring to get me. so i
thought maybe if i ask him, then we could
go togeather and pick out the ring. we're
getting alot of money from our taxes so i
thought now would b the perfect time to do
it, we could afford a ring...
do u think if i asked he might feel
presured? i really dont want to pressure
him, because im sure if he got pressured
into marriage he wouldnt b happy, and i
dont want that.
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 03-18-07 22:13pm
Hmm.. I'm not sure.. It's a toughy.. I've
been joking around with .Shane for the
last 2 months or so telling him if he
doesn't ask me soon .I'm going to propose
& all he does is laugh. He keeps
telling me he has it all planned out how
he plans on asking me. We've been together
since 9th grade so almost 7 years now.
Even if we got engaged .I'd be happy lol,
so I know how you feel. Jokingly on our
way to get chinese one night I shocked the
hell out of him & asked him to marry
me. He got a kick out of it & the
whole night just kept saying "I can't
believe you did that on the way to chinese
of all places, talk about keepin it
romantic!" It was so funny ..
But really I don't know hun.. But I just
wanted you to know you're not the only one
in that position!
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 03-18-07 22:21pm
just wait hell do it. i would personally
rather wait for that perfect time to
happen
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Kia
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Posted: 03-19-07 14:30pm
bump for Sarah
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 03-19-07 14:33pm
I think he might actually get mad. I knew
a woman who propsed to her man and he got
*pissed*! Sayin how it "wasn't right" and
"no, he wouldn't marry her because it
wasn't done right."
But .britney .spears asked .k-.fed to
marry her. So it's not like it's ....maybe a little
.taboo, but not
Sarah
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 03-19-07 14:34pm
thanks kia...
hmm any other oppionions, lol. those are
both really good ones but im trying to see
if theres more yes or nos lol
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Emma2
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Posted: 03-19-07 14:42pm
why do you wanna get married?
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 03-19-07 14:46pm
This totally wasn't directed to me...but I
wanna answer!
The same reason *I* wanna get married.
TO make the bond of me and my man official
by me carrying his last name.
He is my best friend, my soul mate, the
father of our daughter.
I know it's just a piece of paper, but to
me it's more than that. It makes
our(<-edit) love "official" I guess you
could say! lol!
I thought you and your man were married?
Wait...I think you had mentioned him as
your boyfriend...but I Have a horrible
memory! lol
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Sarah, you should wait till he's ready.
FOr all you know he could be planning as
we type.
But you questioning him might scare him a
lil.
Sarah
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 03-19-07 14:51pm
thanks sarah, that makes alot of scense to
me, i guess i never thought about it that
way... i guess im just really impatient
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Emma2
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Posted: 03-19-07 15:01pm
oh_mommy
wrote:
thanks sarah, that makes
alot of scense to me, i guess i never
thought about it that way... i guess im
just really
impatient
thats why i asked you...im curious to know
why you desperately wanna be married. if
impatience is your ultimate reason then
you should not get married.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 03-19-07 15:04pm
I think you should wait until he asks you.
You might be 100% ready but maybe he's
not. And if you asked him, he might feel
like he has to say yes, know what I
mean?
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 03-19-07 15:07pm
Well he said he would ask me before reese
was born, b we never had the money. right
now we have spare cash so it would be the
ideal time to buy a ring. plus i cant
start planning the wedding till he
purposes. i know when i want to get
married but if he waits too long then its
not going to happen cause there wont be
the time to plan it. i also would like to
have all our grandparents there, and
they're all getting up there if u kno what
i mean
..
But really I don't know hun.. But I just
wanted you to know you're not the only one
in that position!
....maybe a little
.taboo, but not 
