ok..
I have a friend, who, always constantly
sleeps around with a bunch of different
guys. She goes from one to another like
purses and wallets.
Well shes also always getting std's and
such from guys.. once she gets rid of one
she gets the same one again or another
one.
She just cant seem to stop. SHe meets a
guy that she thinks is *incredibly hot*
and pretty much immediately sleeps with
him, clings to him like static to
polyester. Starts saying *i love you*
almost immediately.
Then shortly thereafter gets screwed over
by said guy and he stops calling her.
(possible becuase he saw how co-dependant
she is?)
Then complains to me and my friends about
how she doesnt understand why things like
that happen to her, why she keeps getting
these infections, and why she always seems
to *pick the wrong guys.*
H.e.l.p! What should i tell her? She
doesnt listen to anything me and my
friends have to say... if its not what she
wants to hear, she gets furious and
defensive and acts like im out to ruin her
life.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-21-07 18:48pm
eh... that doesn't sound like the
lifestyle i want, i can't imagine.
i don't know what i'd tell her, probably
that she needs to be alone for a while, i
don't understand people who constantly
need someone!
& ask her why she never uses condoms?
If she's sleeping around with a bunch of
different guys then what is she doing not
using birth control? (I guess unless she's
on the pill or something) which in her
case doesn't really matter if she keeps
getting std's.
that sucks that she won't listen to you,
good luck with that one.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 03-22-07 14:13pm
yeah...
i just dont know what to tell her anymore.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 03-22-07 14:18pm
So this friend you are talking
about.....IS it me? because if it is, i
am going to start listening to you and
taking your advice....
Are my phone calls to you this bad? Are
you totally sick and tired of me? Am i a
promiscuous person now? So condoms are a
good thing even on b/c?
please tell me if i am the 'friend'
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 03-22-07 14:20pm
lmao no sweetheart.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 03-22-07 14:41pm
rainfire1424
wrote:
lmao no sweetheart.
LOl :sigh: Glad to hear it.
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Emma2
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Posted: 03-22-07 14:53pm
WHY DONT YOU TELL HER THAT SHE DOESNT
HAVE ANY SELF RESPECT AND GUYS DONT LIKE A
LOOSE WOMEN...THAT SHE IS A promiscuous
person .AND ONE DAY SHE WILL END UP WITH
AIDS ...BRUTAL HONESTY IS THE ONLY WAY
GIRL.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 03-22-07 16:55pm
lmao i've thought about it.
I was talking to one of my good friends
last night about it.. shes tried talking
to her too, and it just goes thru one ear
and out the other.
i feel bad for her.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 03-22-07 17:21pm
One of my very best friends used to be
like this.
After two years, I told her flat-out that
I loved her, she could come to me with
anything else, but I didn't want to hear
about her sex life/romantic life anymore
if she wasn't going to learn from her
mistakes and take my advice when she asks
for it.
I supported my friend, but not her
actions. I made it clear without being
nasty about it. She's happily married now
and we're still best friends.
If you try tough love, you run a big risk
of the whole friendship falling apart.
Honestly .sandra, I would just let her
know how you felt, and ask her to please
not mention it again to you unless/until
she cares to follow your advice or start
being smart about safe sex.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 03-23-07 02:57am
yeah
i love her to death.. i just dont want to
see her get into a predicament she cant
get out of, you know?
that sucks that she won't listen to you,
good luck with that one.
