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mommabear16
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Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Feel..soo...icky
Posted: 02-16-04 12:10pm
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Homelife is pretty icky right now. My
little sister and my mom are at it all the
time. My little sister thinks that her
life is so terrible and she tells my mom
that she's mean and she hates her just
because my mom makes her clean her room
and make her bed..So does my other
siblings but they dont complain about it.
My sister also seems to be convinced that
she gets nothing even though like two days
ago my mom, my two sisters and brother,
and there dad went out and all the kids
got to sped 100 dollars each (income
tax)...And they went out for mc d's. (btw
I can't go to "family" outings because I
cant be around my scott..The kids dad)
so my mom feels like caca because of
her.....And I feel like caca because all
there is in my house is yelling..So I was
crying yesterday cause I dont think I can
take much more so I went to stevens house
( my boyfriend) then I went to grandmas
house to have as much peace as a can.
Grandma had a talk with the kids about how
there being yesterday and they started to
be good yesterday...But now...Things are
just back to being the same.
Oh and my brother and sisters are conviced
that they never have to listen to me when
I tell them to do something....Like stop
jumping off the furniture...Or be quiet
and watch tv..Or play nice...Or stop
getting into stuff w/o asking...So when I
spank them or send them to there rooms i'm
the meanest sister alive....And I mostly
get yelled at by my sister (alyssa) that
is bad for my mom...Her and I dont get
along at all because she wont listen and
when she gets in trouble she says its my
fault because im mean and that she didnt
do anything wrong.
I just feel like running away right now
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-16-04 12:12pm
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Don't run away. Although I love my sister
harlee. She's 10 and prolly the biggest
whiney b*tch in the world! And hey,
that's not mean! I love her to death and
god knows' i'd die if anythign happened to
her. She doesn't listen and is like the
complete opposite of me! She's in to give
my mom a lot of trouble in her years to
come! But just take it one day at a time
and calm down. I know how it can be
stressful but you don't need any stress.
Just take a deep breath. Is there maybe a
friends house you can go stay at for a
day or two?
Love,
chanda
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HomecomingQueen2003
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2003
Posts: 936
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:14pm
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Awww sweetie I am so sorry!! I know how
it feels to feel helpless in those kind of
situations. Right now you have to worry
about you and your baby though, so don’t
bother telling them to chill out, if you
start feeling stressed, go to another part
of the house, turn on some music and zone
out. Or bundle up real warm and go for a
5-10 minute walk around the block to clear
your head so you don’t get stressed. You
can’t control people, or their actions and
it only makes you stress more if you try.
But you can control you! I hope this
helps even a little!
Meg
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 1705
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:15pm
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Grr brothers and sisters are always like
that!!! I have yet to hear about a good
bro or sis who actually listens to older
siblilngs and/or parents!! Hang in there
hun.
~sara~
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mommabear16
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Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:19pm
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Well, alyssa (the one that im mostly
complaining about) screams, yells, throws
things...Says that everyone is out to ruin
her life....Says that no one loves her
because there soooo mean to her. Mom
sends her to her room and she'll come out
and be like " can I get out now" mom says
no and she stomps back in to her room and
lets out loud shreaks and says that she
"hates this day...And no one loves her"
all this other bs.
I know I dont need this stress. I dont
think my mom does either cause she's going
through divorce.
Logan, my brother, has been giving my mom
hell at night he's like "i want you!!" and
demands my mom to do what he says...And it
just makes things worse when he screams at
the top of his lungs...So mom hugs him and
tells him to go to sleep but he still
screams and demandes things. I know that
the kids are upset about there dad and my
mom getting a divorce expecially logan,
but he's using it for his advantige.
*screams* I have been telling my brother
and sisters to stop jumping around cause
there going to get hurt for the past 10
min..And guess what happend..One of them
got hurt. Im really p!Ssed right now. My
mom is sleeping and she wont get her
freaking butt up and do something about
it. When my mom is depressed or
whatever..She sleeps until like 1. So I
end up waching the kids....Which really
blows. I feel sorry for my mom and I just
wish that these kids could stop being such
brats.
I cant stay with anyfriends cause I can go
into labor anytime cause im a week and two
days overdue..Which might I add doesnt
help anything at all
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HomecomingQueen2003
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2003
Posts: 936
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:21pm
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Sweetie then walking will help!! It could
send you into labor faster and then
request to stay a day longer in the
hospital to get away from the stress! Lol
meg
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mommabear16
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Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:24pm
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I cant take a walk because im waching
them.
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 1705
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:25pm
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Ohh I remember being that annoying little
girl. I used to think that everyone was
ganging up on me and purposly making my
life hell! I think everyone goes through
that stage...And I am sure it will pass.
Just try to hang in there. Stress isn't
good for you at this time. I am sure
being overdue isn't helping the matter.
I couldn't imagine being a week over my
due date. I could barely walk and move
when I was 36 wks...Luckily I had her at
37. I was actually begging doc to induce
me because I could barely even breathe.
My body just ached...Oh man I could go on
forever. It was the worst pain in the
world at 9 months! I thought labor was
better...Lol. Anyways...I hope you have
the baby soooon! Good luck hun!
~sara~
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HomecomingQueen2003
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2003
Posts: 936
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:26pm
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Just brisk walk around the house, that
will do just the same!
Meg
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:30pm
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I live in an apartment....There's not alot
of room to just "walk" heh
dont get me wrong I love all of
them....But sometimes....I just wish that
I wasnt their sister.
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:30pm
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Hun I hope yoou feel better! I know it's
hard living with other people! I cant
stand jesse's little brothers and sister.
When do you go to the doctor again?
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:32pm
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I go tomarrow but I dont see her.
I'm getting an ultrasound and a nst.
How come there giving me so many of those
nst's?? I'v had 3 already.
If I dont have him anytime this week I
know I will have him on sat. Cause thats
the two week overdue mark. I will
probably see my doc on friday im guessing
though.
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:39pm
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They gave my 2 nst's a week after 8 months
with the twins. I know they are moring.
My doctors dont induce here on the
weekends. Maybe they will take you in
friday!! Anyday though right!! Are you
ready? Do you have your bags packed?
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HomecomingQueen2003
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2003
Posts: 936
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:40pm
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Ok may sound stupid, but what are nst's?
Meg
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:42pm
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Iv had my bags packed for 3
weeks..Lol...
I'v had his cradle ready for about a
month..I'm just waiting and waiting
good news..My brothers and sisters are
being good for now...Heh..I wonder how
long thats gonna last.
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:44pm
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Megan, they are non stress tests. They
monitor the babies movements to make sure
he's fine.
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HomecomingQueen2003
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2003
Posts: 936
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:45pm
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Oh ok! Cool thanks! Lol
meg
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-16-04 12:51pm
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One happy moment turns bad.
My mom just woke up and told the kids to
clean up there rooms before lunch..
Alyssa threw a fit..
Mom pushed her and told her that she hates
her.
What do ido
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-16-04 13:28pm
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Okay well things are a bit better
now...There were apologies and stuff...But
moms kinda ignoring alyssa right now.
I fixed them lunch...As I did
breakfast...A thank-you would be nice.
At around two (my time) i'm going to
myfriends house for a little bit. Maybe
i'll have fun
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-16-04 14:34pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-06-04 17:24pm; edited 1 time in total
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