Advice About My Face, Please? Posted: 03-22-07 04:49am
I should have a craniofacial and plastic
surgery but I came to a point where I am
becoming unable to tell my doc what
procedures I decided on and what look
exactly I would love to have. I think I am
just freaking out before the final
decision (and making the necessary
implants for my new bone structure).
So, I came seeking for advice.
I am posting my hospital pics. Please, be
very very (brutally) honest and try to
tell me what I should alter to be
pretty/beautiful. I do not just want to
look "normal" as in "not disfigured". If I
have to endure craniofacial and plastic
surgery, over 2 months of pain + some
additional procedures after, I want it to
be worth it.
Also looking this way stops me from doing
my work (nobody wants an ugly
translator/diplomate), so I am hoping that
if I get a "representative look", I might
be able to find the work I am qualified
for much easier. As for now, I usually get
the 1) "You are a good translator, your
profile is matching our needs" 2)Then the
meeting and something along the lines of
"Ah, nice to meet you..." 3)A letter
saying they found someone who was more
suitable for them
The 100% necessary (and agreed on)
procedures so far are: Advancing the upper
jaw to correct my lower overbite + cheek
implants (I am hoping for high cheeks)
I am also thinking about altering my
forehead, but not sure how.
I can (and will) have my bone structure
altered by implants, so major changes are
possible.
Btw. The skin problems have been taken
care of already My skin is pretty
clean at the moment.
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Hi Posted: 04-01-07 15:11pm
Brutally honest and blunt...thats
me......First, I looked at both of your
pictures, face front and profile. I do not
see anything wrong with the way your bone
structure is. Why on earth would you want
to reconstruct your face? If you are dead
set on plastic surgery, please make damned
sure you find a good qualified one. Have a
conseltation with the Dr and ask his
opinion and ask to see photos of before
and after of his work. You can then get a
general idea of what oyu are looking for.
I did not understnad hte cheek inplants, I
could see maybe a chin implant to balance
out your profile. I think you look just
fine the way you are, just maybe try
experimenting wioht different makeups and
talk to makeup consultants. Its a sad
thing when todays world is so hung up on
"LOOKS" rather than to take someone for
who they really are...Its what is on the
inside that counts girlfriend, not the
outside...... I also would like to say if
these people at job interviews are turning
you away because you think of how you
look.....well its their stupidity and
their loss........keep in touch!