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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 210
Location: las vegas
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Guess What
Posted: 02-16-04 13:19pm
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Hey ladies this is illusionsmamma(claudia)
guess what ? Well what I feared i'm
pregnant!! I am so confused I need some
support and help please reply to any
helping words nikki are you still here
and lildreamer i'm only 19 and I already
have 1 daughter I dont want anymore!!!
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-16-04 13:22pm
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I had a baby when I was 16 then I got
pregnant with twins when I was 17. I
almost didnt keep them, but I changed my
mind and I have 2 more great kids!
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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 210
Location: las vegas
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Posted: 02-16-04 13:56pm
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Wow thats great and you re so brave for
being able to take care of all your kids I
admire you !!
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-16-04 14:55pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-08-04 10:17am; edited 1 time in total
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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 210
Location: las vegas
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Posted: 02-16-04 16:49pm
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Well ladies I already love my baby but I
fear to what my mother will say even
thoughi already have my own life and my
apartment and stuff I just worry too much
on what she is going to say I also think
and have a lot of fear if my boss will
fire me that is scary if I lose my job I
lose everything because right now we are
having alot of financial problems with
jimmy quiting his job because of the
advantage they were taking from him in his
job so he is looking for another job and
jen I do admire you alot as well believe
me you are so brave but I am planning not
to tell my mom or anybody till they see it
on their own.. (because i'm scared)
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-16-04 16:53pm
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Dont feel bad I havent told my grandma yet
and i'm 4 months!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-16-04 17:37pm
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Congrats sweetie! I know you can do it!
You are doing great with 1. 2 will be a
blessing! Nikki is still here. She just
didn't have to work today! I'll be sure
to tell her to check in with you!
Love,
chanda
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-17-04 09:29am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-08-04 10:17am; edited 1 time in total
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 1705
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 02-17-04 20:37pm
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As far as you boss firing you...You could
get him in trouble for discrimination if
he does! It happened to me when I became
pregnant.
~sara~
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-18-04 00:23am
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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 210
Location: las vegas
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Posted: 02-19-04 16:47pm
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Well i'm not sure I show already though
and I am 19 I think I am going through
hell right now I feel devastated and
worried!!!
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 02-19-04 16:49pm
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Claudia!!!!!!!!! How are you? Are you
pregnant? Have you taken a test?
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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 210
Location: las vegas
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Posted: 02-27-04 10:17am
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Hey nikki I thought I replied to you
yesterday but this stupid thing didnt work
well yeah I took I test and a rn
(registered nurse) told me I wasw like 6
1/2 months but I am scared I really dont
want to have this baby now I got in a huge
arguement with my stupid man and I
sometimes feel if leaving him will be a
good choice for me and my daughter but im
also scared of that too I am just so
confused and I need help I need someone to
talk to and I really dont have anybody my
mom doesnt even talk to me last night I
told him I was done and I had never said
that in my life to him and in a way it
felt good to really let my feelings out
and I just exploded right now I am going
through hell he asked me for the last
chance to change his entire lifestyle for
us but I dont seem to believe him anymore
and I think if I only have one child it
will be much easier for me I know for sure
I am going to end up alone I am so
desperate and I think I need help im not
dure what kind of help but I do any body
know where I can find some!!!!
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-27-04 10:27am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-08-04 10:18am; edited 1 time in total
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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 210
Location: las vegas
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Posted: 02-27-04 10:38am
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Thanks jen but iam 6 1/2 wks. Sorry about
the confusion I dont even know what im
saying but its tough and I dont think I
need someone to just give me more problems
everyday of my life I nedd happiness too
and tranquility I i dont have that I am
totally confused
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-27-04 10:46am
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I think that what you need is a round of
applause you have done a hell of a job
with the life that you have already and I
sure that having another baby is not going
to do anything but help that. I mean why
werent you on the pill or something to
prevent pregnancy. Good luck..
Congratulations!!
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-27-04 10:46am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-08-04 10:18am; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 02-27-04 11:29am
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Claudia you can call me if you want! No
way, you cant end this. Remember when I
told you I wanted to end things with jose
and leave to my moms, what did you tell
me? You said I better keep my a$$ at home
and work things out! And I did. And we
still argue but guess what, I gave him
that chance and he quit drinking! You
dont need to be scared. You have to keep
this baby! Is yours. What would you do
if it was illlusion you were terminating??
You just cant end it like that. You
might be scared now but keeping it is the
best thing. And work things out with your
man, set down some ground rules for him
ok! What kinda help are you looking for?
Just keep calm and dont stress! You have
a baby inside you and you should be happy.
Things happen for a reason!
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