Joined: 28 Dec 2006 Posts: 25 Location: boonies, USA
Bad Bad Bad Bad Bad News :( Posted: 03-22-07 09:52am
so i went to the obgyn yesterday to have
my ultrasound and when the doctor was
looking he could no longer find the baby.
I lost the baby. I was 8 weeks and 2
days!! I've been crying since yesterday
afternoon. I feel like my life is over. I
never thought this would happen. And the
thing thats even worse is right before
they took me in for my ultrasound they has
us looking at all these baby models and
she showed me what my baby looked like. I
dont think this pain will ever go away. I
have to go have surgery to remove
everything that is still up there since i
didnt get my period. We have been waiting
for so long and it happend. Now its gone.
I thought i did everything right.
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mamaTT
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2007 Posts: 2000 Location: Illinois, USA
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Posted: 03-22-07 09:54am
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.
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AyaMiyaki
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Posts: 8226 Location: Floating on a cloud, United States
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Posted: 03-22-07 09:57am
I'm sorry for your loss.
.I'm going to move this to the
.miscarriage forum - but a shadow will be
left here so people will still see it.
Take care, hon. We're here for you.
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tululabell
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 May 2006 Posts: 256 Location: michigan
Posted: 03-22-07 18:45pm
hey, you didn't do anything wrong. i know
it can feel that way now but it isn't your
fault. i went over every little thing that
i did trying to pinpoint why i m/c and
when it came down to it, there was just
something wrong.
it hurts a lot right now but you will feel
better eventually. i don't think i will
ever forget or be 100% over my m/c but i
can talk about it and i am fine.
just cry and grieve how ever you want. it
is a very sad and hard thing to go through
and if you ever need to just health forum
or have questions feel free to pm me! i
felt so alone when i m/c i would hate for
others to feel that way.
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monkeygirl22
Supporter
Joined: 20 Nov 2006 Posts: 2399 Location: ,
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Posted: 03-22-07 20:05pm
I am so sorry! I just had a miscarriage
this week as well. I was only four weeks
along and had just found out but it still
hurts. I went through some of these same
feelings. If you ever need to talk just pm
me.
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Amber*Marie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 1430
Posted: 03-23-07 00:34am
Im so sorry! I have been there and I know
how you feel. If you ever need to talk,
you can PM me!
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Bridget
Moderator
Joined: 27 Jan 2006 Posts: 10809 Location: ,
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Posted: 03-23-07 09:23am
i'm so so sorry. it's such a horrible
thing to have to go through and
unfortunately it's pretty common. it was
nothing you did and there's nothing you
could have done so don't blame yourself!
try not to stress over the surgery, it's a
very simple procedure and you'll be
asleep.
