Hello there
I stumbled apon this place and I signed
myself up.
I have a question for the ladies. Have you
ever had any pain during sex. I ask this
question because my girlfriend she has had
some pain during sex, She describes the
pain as like a contraction in her stomach
muscles. This occurs when we engage in
certain sexual postions. Also this pain
doesn't always occur when we are in these
postions. I am just curious have any of
you women felt pain in certain postions ?
Also my girlfriend says she has a tipped
cervix would this have anything to do with
the pain she suffers from. Also she thinks
that it might have to do with her cycle
like certain times of her cycle she will
have this pain and certain times she
won't. I am concerned because she feels as
thought she has to indure this pain to
satisfy my sexual desire. I told her this
isn't the case and that she should let me
know if I am hurting her.( she usually
doesn't say anything till after we are
done) I just care about her and don't want
to hurt her. She belives that my size has
alot to do with this. I am wondering if
you ladies have expiernced any of this
before
All input would be greatly apperciated
Thank You
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 03-23-07 13:07pm
There are many reasons for pain during
sex, and a tipped cervix is one of them.
Usually the penis does not hit the cervix
during sex, but if the cervix is tipped,
that can make it easier for the penis to
hit it. That also might explain why she
feels more pain in certain positions,
those positions might make it even easier
for you to hit the cervix. Depending on
how bad the pain is, she can either make
sure she is one of the less painful
positions or talk to her ob-gyn about
whether surgery is an option.
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Lion79
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Joined: 29 Mar 2007 Posts: 303 Location: Sunderland, UK
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Posted: 03-29-07 10:15am
Sex is painful for me everytime, and it
can feel like it's just too big, but in
reality it can't be too big because a
vagina has to expand to get a whole human
out of there. Maybe you should ask her
when you start having sex if it's painful
for her, and if she says yes maybe spend a
bit more time on foreplay.
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Moo
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Posted: 03-29-07 10:50am
Sometimes a large penis can be
uncomfortable but that can easily be
sorted by positions where you aren't as
deep if you get what I mean?
Also, is this a recent thing?
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bar of soap
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 6
Posted: 03-29-07 12:07pm
this isn't a recent thing, we have been
together close to two years and in that
time we have explored our desires in
different ways between each other. I try
to be very caring and attentive to her and
her needs as she does for me as well. I am
concerned because she will not say
anything until we are finished. Most times
I can tell because it feels different,
like I am hitting something, it is really
wierd because it will come out of nowhere.
Most times I do hit her cervix and it
doesn't bother her but at certain angles
it causes her pain. maybe I am hitting a
rib our something
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-29-07 12:52pm
bar of soap
wrote:
this isn't a recent thing,
we have been together close to two years
and in that time we have explored our
desires in different ways between each
other. I try to be very caring and
attentive to her and her needs as she does
for me as well. I am concerned because she
will not say anything until we are
finished. Most times I can tell because it
feels different, like I am hitting
something, it is really wierd because it
will come out of nowhere. Most times I do
hit her cervix and it doesn't bother her
but at certain angles it causes her pain.
maybe I am hitting a rib our something
Lol, you can't possibly be hitting a rib;
there are intesitnes, a stomach, and her
liver in the way, not to mention her
uterus XD
It is your size that is doing it, and
you're probably hitting her cervix indeed.
It happens to me too sometimes. The thing
is, light pressure can feel painful but
good, but too much pressure can pass over
into just pain.
Ask her to just express herself when yo
have sex; and to tell you if you're too
deep. Some pain during sex can be
pleasurable for some women, but too much
is always a turn off!
