I have been dating my boyfriend for almost
a year and a half, and this is really the
first time I have ever been truely in
love. Therefore, I'm not sure how to feel
or if what I feel is normal. Whenever I
am with him I am so happy, there is never
a frown on my face, he always knows how to
brighten my day. People say when I talk
about him my face starts to glow, and I
look so happy. Recently we have hit a
rough patch, which we made it through fine
but it seems like whenever we argue part
of me dies inside, like part of my love
fades....it always comes back but it takes
time. Is this normal?
Also, when I say I love you, I don't
always get a "special" feeling inside, and
like I said I don't know if this is normal
or not because this is the first time I've
truly been in love, and this is the man I
want to marry.
I have had another issue though...Although
I know deep down that I love him with all
my heart I find myself questioning whether
I really do, and I don't know why. I
sometimes get feelings that I don't love
him but the thought of losing him kills me
inside. I think that I get these feelings
because we are with each other somedays
24/7 and that I feel that I don't love him
because I have no alone time. Also my
grades are slipping because I do spend a
lot of time with him instead of doing my
work.
He has no problem hanging out by himself,
in fact he agrees that we need alone time,
however I feel bad sometimes and I don't
do things by myself...and I think that is
tearing us apart, and making me feel
things that I don't really feel. How do I
get myself back to where I want to be
before we were dating...not together 24/7
cause I think it is suffocating us...
Any help would be great because I know I
do love this man with my whole heart, he
is the one I want to marry, he is perfect
to me and treats me the way I want to be
treated....I just want those weird
feelings to go away
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 03-27-07 14:45pm
do what me and my old man didwe set days
that we know we would not see each
other.obviously you have other priorities
you need to take care of and you are
togehter too much.pick 2 or 3 days out of
the week you will not see each
other.youprobably do love him but your not
gona get that gushy feeling everytime you
say I love you."i love you" becomes an
everyday thing to say so it may seem like
its losing its meaning but its not.special
moments will come uop and you'll say I
love you,and you'll know you mean it!
