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a lone
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Can't Have An Internal Orgasm
Posted: 03-27-07 18:32pm
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I have always only been able to have
clitoral orgasms. Which have been
awesome!!!! But never an internal orgasm?
Is this normal? What would be the reason
for my not having the internal kind? Some
people have told me it has to do w/ the
g-spot. Could someone explain that to me
too! Wondering if I'm missing out?
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-27-07 19:38pm
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i've heard that only like 10% of women can
have a vaginal orgasm. I could be wrong
though.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 03-27-07 20:59pm
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A lot of women have trouble even having a
clitoral orgasm. Almost no one has a
vaginal orgasm. Vaginal orgasms and
G-spots aren't even proven at this point.
They're still theory, despite what you
might be lead to believe from pornos and
people trying to sell you books about how
to find your G-spot. A lot of doctors and
researchers believe, but a lot aren't
convinced that all women, or even most,
have one. So, no, you're certainly not
abnormal. In fact, it would be more
abnormal if you did have vaginal orgasms.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-27-07 23:17pm
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| Llewellyn
wrote: | | A lot of women have trouble
even having a clitoral orgasm. Almost no
one has a vaginal orgasm. Vaginal orgasms
and G-spots aren't even proven at this
point. They're still theory, despite what
you might be lead to believe from pornos
and people trying to sell you books about
how to find your G-spot. A lot of doctors
and researchers believe, but a lot aren't
convinced that all women, or even most,
have one. So, no, you're certainly not
abnormal. In fact, it would be more
abnormal if you did have vaginal
orgasms. |
From all of the literature I've read and
talks I've been to, it's an almost proven
theory these days.
I certainly get a sensation inside my
vagina and I feel like it might build to
something.
However, I have never had a vaginal
orgasim and it's true that only around 10%
of women can have them. Clitoral orgasms
are totally normal and more than
sufficient!
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 03-27-07 23:44pm
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| Eiri
wrote: |
From all of the literature I've read and
talks I've been to, it's an almost proven
theory these days.
I certainly get a sensation inside my
vagina and I feel like it might build to
something.
However, I have never had a vaginal
orgasim and it's true that only around 10%
of women can have them. Clitoral orgasms
are totally normal and more than
sufficient! |
There is a lot of talk about the G-spot.
However, when people talk about it, I find
that they often don't have any research to
back up their claims. A lot of the
websites and books out there devoted to
the subject don't seem to be based on
anything more than the author's opinions.
I have heard people say G-spots are proven
to be in all women. Other people say they
are proven to be in some women. Others
say that they are not proven in anyone
yet. Still others say they are proven to
not be in most women! So I tend to go
with the plain old, "it isn't proven at
this point" explanation. I am not
convinced, and will not be convinced,
until I see some solid research. It would
be great if more people would research
things like this because we are really
lacking in studies in this area.
I think this is an interesting take on
it:
"Since the concept first appeared in a
popular book on human sexuality in 1982,
the existence of the spot has become
widely accepted, especially by the general
public. This article reviews the
behavioral, biochemical, and anatomic
evidence for the reality of the G-spot,
which includes claims about the nature of
female ejaculation. The evidence is far
too weak to support the reality of the
G-spot. Specifically, anecdotal
observations and case studies made on the
basis of a tiny number of subjects are not
supported by subsequent anatomic and
biochemical studies. (Am J Obstet Gynecol
2001;185:359-62.)....Given the widespread
acceptance of the reality of the G-spot,
one would expect to find a considerable
body of research confirming the existence
of such a structure. In fact, such
supporting evidence is minimal at
best....."
http://www.drgspot.net/Hines.ht
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-27-07 23:53pm
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i'm glad i'm one of the lucky ones  i
didn't think i would either since it's
only 10%
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 03-28-07 00:26am
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i've never had an orgasium 
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-28-07 02:27am
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| oh_mommy
wrote: | | i've never had an orgasium
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You've never had a clitoral orgasm!? o.o I
suggest maturbation. Masturbation for
everyone!
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fiona05
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Posted: 03-28-07 03:34am
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indeed. masturbation for all! you gotta
explore your own body and see what makes
you tick. i can't believe there are women
who have never experienced orgasm. trust
me, once you've experienced it you'll
marvel at all you've been missing out on.
some women seem to have difficulty
reaching orgasm with just masturbation, so
perhaps you could invest in a vibrator?
as for the g-spot orgasm, i've never had
one either. it's not for want of trying.
every couple of months i get jealous by
all the talk of it on this forum and so i
try again. but to no avail lol. there's
information on wikipedia.org though if you
want to investigate. try entering female
ejaculation or g-spot.
what did i ever do before there was
wikipedia?
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BeautifulLiesx3
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Posted: 03-28-07 04:39am
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I am actually a believer of the g-spot
thing. It's worked for me more than once.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 03-28-07 12:49pm
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I am not saying that there isn't a G-spot.
I just like to point out that it is still
a theory because it seems like a lot of
women think something is wrong with them
if they can't find it. So I like to let
them know that some doctors can't find it
either! I have heard some theorize that
it could be kind of like an extension of
the nerves in the clitoris. That is an
interesting, and it would explain why not
all women like G-spot stimulation, maybe
there isn't that extension of the nerves
in all women, maybe just that 10%. A lot
of things are possible since we know so
little about it though. I also heard that
women who experience orgasms from G-spot
stimulation tend to have a tougher time
having clitoral orgasms than other women.
I am not sure if there is any truth to
that, but it would be another interesting
point.
Either way, I don't feel anything in
there. If there is no clitoral
stimulation, I am not having an orgasm.
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bar of soap
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Posted: 03-28-07 15:44pm
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I personally never had one because I am
male but My girlfriend can achive this.
when I first witnessed this I was in shock
and I thought she peed on me. She
explained it to me and that it doesn't
happen all the time but certain postions
and exicetments can get her there. She
began to tell me it was very hard for her
the first time to be able to do this. To
mentally let go words she used. I have
been with a number of ladies in my life
time and I have never witnessed this until
that afternoon.
She said it is easiest for her to achieve
this when she is on her knees and I am
pounding away from behind in a downward
thrust she will add her own clitoral
stimulation by rubbing herself. All I can
say is that it was a very powerful
expiernce after I got passed I thought I
was pissed on.
So ladies I would suggest keep trying and
have fun trying 
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 03-28-07 18:22pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | oh_mommy
wrote: | | i've never had an orgasium
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You've never had a clitoral orgasm!? o.o I
suggest maturbation. Masturbation for
everyone! |
lol, yea.. the problem is i dont like
touching myself i find it discusting. and
when shawn touches me i like it but i try
to get away and i say no i dont kno y, i
just do, it sucks.
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flipper
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Posted: 03-29-07 23:59pm
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I honestly didn't believe in the g-spot
orgasm either till I had one of my own
finally. A lot of foreplay went into that
sucker. We weren't actually trying for a
g-spot anything, it just happened. I
could tell that things were going to be
different though, because I kept getting
this feeling like I needed to bear down.
I was on bottom with my legs up on his
shoulders. It felt like waves and it was
just neverending. Afterwards I was so
completely exhausted that I just couldn't
move for a while, and I was drenched.
Didn't soak the bed or anything, but there
was definitely a lot more of me than
usual. lol.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-30-07 01:15am
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| oh_mommy
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | | oh_mommy
wrote: | | i've never had an orgasium
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You've never had a clitoral orgasm!? o.o I
suggest maturbation. Masturbation for
everyone! |
lol, yea.. the problem is i dont like
touching myself i find it discusting. and
when shawn touches me i like it but i try
to get away and i say no i dont kno y, i
just do, it
sucks. |
It sounds like a bad mental opinion of
your body.
Your vagina is not icky, and you should
never feel gross when touching it. it is a
tool to give you incredible pleasure!
If the concept of touching when you're
just sitting around grosses you out, then
try doing it in the bathtub; everythin
washes away instantly, there's no smell or
anything like that. Also, wetness can add
a bit of a mental barrier between your
fingers and your vagina. You can even try
using a toy such as a vibrator to further
distance your hand from your vagina.
The thing is, you probably won't ever
enjoy sex fully and have an orgasm unless
you touch and stimulate your clitoris, and
that's final.
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glagav
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Posted: 07-05-07 03:08am
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| HcoBrunette06
wrote: | | i've heard that only like
10% of women can have a vaginal orgasm. I
could be wrong
though. |
I was a woman who couldn’t have vaginal
orgasms but after the treatment (Sentia
and creams) I have them. The difference is
enormous. Vaginal orgasm can’t be
compared with clitoral.
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mrsbuzski
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Orgasmn
Posted: 07-05-07 03:38am
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Wow, reading this stuff makes me?
A. horney
B. tired
C. headache
D. None of the above? Is this the G
spot?
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-05-07 20:22pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | oh_mommy
wrote: | | i've never had an orgasium
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You've never had a clitoral orgasm!? o.o I
suggest maturbation. Masturbation for
everyone! |
ha ha! you sound too exited!
no im just kidding
well (im pretty sure) ive had an internal
orgasm before and it feels nothing like a
clitoral orgasm does...
its more of a ...intense feeling
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blueyedbeautyxo
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Posted: 07-05-07 23:45pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | oh_mommy
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | | oh_mommy
wrote: | | i've never had an orgasium
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You've never had a clitoral orgasm!? o.o I
suggest maturbation. Masturbation for
everyone! |
lol, yea.. the problem is i dont like
touching myself i find it discusting. and
when shawn touches me i like it but i try
to get away and i say no i dont kno y, i
just do, it
sucks. |
It sounds like a bad mental opinion of
your body.
Your vagina is not icky, and you should
never feel gross when touching it. it is a
tool to give you incredible pleasure!
If the concept of touching when you're
just sitting around grosses you out, then
try doing it in the bathtub; everythin
washes away instantly, there's no smell or
anything like that. Also, wetness can add
a bit of a mental barrier between your
fingers and your vagina. You can even try
using a toy such as a vibrator to further
distance your hand from your vagina.
The thing is, you probably won't ever
enjoy sex fully and have an orgasm unless
you touch and stimulate your clitoris, and
that's final. |
okay sorry to say but that isn't final. i
also hate touching myself and think its
gross, i'd rather have my boyfriend do the
work for me. so the only reason i know
what i like and what pleasures me, its all
because of my boyfriend. so yes the
bathtub thing works but that doesnt mean
its going to make her feel any different
with touching her own vagina.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-06-07 00:19am
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It saddens me to see women disgusted with
their own bodies... the vagina is a thing
of beauty and should be loved by its
owner... Not hated...
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