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Anne123

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Posted: 07-06-07 08:16am


I agree. That is sad. How can anyone expect to be relaxed and comfortable with another person touching their body if they aren't comfortable touching it themselves? All this talk on the forum about vaginal vs clitoral orgasms made me think about my own experiences. I had vaginal orgasms easily, all the time with my first boyfriend - and never with anyone since. I have since mastered the clitoral orgasm and myself or my partner will take care of any extra manual stimulation needed. I started thinking... what was the difference, and realized what it was. My first boyfriend was .N.O.T circumcised and every man I've been with since has been circumcised. That's the difference. The words "ribbed for her pleasure" come to mind..... I bet those "10% of women can achieve vaginal orgasms" are .American stats where up until recently the circumcision rate was very high.

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Posted: 07-06-07 08:45am


thas a very good observation anne! I never thought of that!

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Posted: 07-06-07 15:25pm

Anne123 wrote:

I bet those "10% of women can achieve vaginal orgasms" are .American stats where up until recently the circumcision rate was very high.

Very possible. I think it depends on the woman too though. For me, vaginal stimulation just doesn't do a whole lot for me. I have been with circumcised men, and one uncircumcised man (edit: although now that I think about it, I never slept with him without a condom, so that could make a difference). I also tried various ribbed condoms. I did not notice a difference with any of it. It all felt the same to me. Laughing

I have clitoral orgasms very easily though.

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Posted: 07-06-07 19:38pm


I had another mind-blowing experience with g-spot masturbation today... I still have to do clitoral, but I think I'm getting good enough that as I go towards climax, I can start doing less clitoral and just use vaginal...

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Posted: 07-06-07 20:20pm


i get this kinda feeling/urge to pee occasionally when we're having sex...is that strange at all.....its only on occassion...is that what a gspot orgasm feels like right before or what?

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Posted: 07-06-07 20:22pm

worrywart001 wrote:

i get this kinda feeling/urge to pee occasionally when we're having sex...is that strange at all.....its only on occassion...is that what a gspot orgasm feels like right before or what?

Yep, that's it. A g-spot stimulation makes you feel like you have to pee. You're supposed to relax and push like when you pee to orgasm. I haven't figured it out yet either!

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Posted: 07-06-07 20:30pm

Eiri wrote:

worrywart001 wrote:

i get this kinda feeling/urge to pee occasionally when we're having sex...is that strange at all.....its only on occassion...is that what a gspot orgasm feels like right before or what?

Yep, that's it. A g-spot stimulation makes you feel like you have to pee. You're supposed to relax and push like when you pee to orgasm. I haven't figured it out yet either!

realllllllly????? very interesting..this just recently started happening as i've become much more comfortable sexually with my bf and i've noticed its only in certain positions...and i always make him slow down when it happens bc i get kinda nervous haha...maybe i'll eventually figure it out...i'm afraid to push because I feel like i'm gonna pee all over him lol...so i tense up...so basically i should just let loose and go for it?

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Posted: 07-06-07 21:32pm


Its such a weird feeling! Lol. I always want to stop because i feel like im going to pee, even though i have never said that to my boyfriend.... haha, anyways, i dont always get them but i do get a really good "rush" from sex...

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Posted: 07-09-07 08:21am

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Yeah! Let loose and go for it! Don't worry if it gets a little messy (I tended to gush a little) - he'll love it.

Isn't it awesome how the more comfortable you are with a person (sexually), the better the sex gets?!? Yeah!!!! Smile

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Posted: 07-09-07 09:20am

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Its such a weird feeling! Lol. I always want to stop because i feel like im going to pee, even though i have never said that to my boyfriend.... haha, anyways, i dont always get them but i do get a really good "rush" from sex...

this is what I don't understand.women say that a vag.org is better than a clitoral,but you feel like your going to pee. . how does that feel better?

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Posted: 07-09-07 11:02am


Did anyone actually say that a vaginal orgasm is better? I don't think it's necessarily better. You can have big or small, short or long, single or multiple orgasms whether it's vaginal or clitoral. It's hard to compare the two. On average, I'd say neither is necessarily better, but it depends on the person. If your clitoris is extremely sensitive and you don't like it being stimulated then vaginal orgasms might be better for you. Or, if you're really good at having long, intense clitoral orgasms then that might be better for you. I don't think it feels the same as when you need to pee (it's been a long time) when you have a vaginal orgasm (though it would be different for each woman), but maybe that's just the best way that people can describe something that is difficult to describe.

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Posted: 07-09-07 14:02pm

Anne123 wrote:

Did anyone actually say that a vaginal orgasm is better?

I don't think it's necessarily better. You can have big or small, short or long, single or multiple orgasms whether it's vaginal or clitoral. It's hard to compare the two.

On average, I'd say neither is necessarily better, but it depends on the person. If your clitoris is extremely sensitive and you don't like it being stimulated then vaginal orgasms might be better for you. Or, if you're really good at having long, intense clitoral orgasms then that might be better for you.

I don't think it feels the same as when you need to pee (it's been a long time) when you have a vaginal orgasm (though it would be different for each woman), but maybe that's just the best way that people can describe something that is difficult to describe.

no no,it didn't say that on here but I have seen people on this forum say it was better.I was just wondering Wink

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Posted: 07-09-07 14:10pm

Eiri wrote:

I had another mind-blowing experience with g-spot masturbation today... I still have to do clitoral, but I think I'm getting good enough that as I go towards climax, I can start doing less clitoral and just use vaginal...

Eiri,, do you ever have a mind blowing experience with your man? You often talk about masturbation and not to much about good sex with him.. Just wondering..

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Posted: 07-09-07 17:18pm

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Eiri wrote:

Eiri,, do you ever have a mind blowing experience with your man? You often talk about masturbation and not to much about good sex with him.. Just wondering..

I did enjoy sex with my boyfriend, and the feeling of a penis inside of my vagina just shot tingles through my whole body. It was amazing, and I have had instances where I could not control myself and just cried out lol.

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Posted: 07-09-07 17:36pm

Eiri wrote:

meblonde01 wrote:

Eiri wrote:

Eiri,, do you ever have a mind blowing experience with your man? You often talk about masturbation and not to much about good sex with him.. Just wondering..

I'm sorry I did not know you had broken up with him..

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Posted: 07-09-07 20:01pm


Yeah ^^u we were engaged but didn't even have a date planned... and things just weren't right for me.

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Posted: 07-10-07 06:22am


I'm sorry! when did this happen?I just broke up with my ex like 3 weeks ago so your not alone!

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Posted: 07-10-07 06:37am

Eiri wrote:

Yeah ^^u we were engaged but didn't even have a date planned... and things just weren't right for me.

sorry Eiri.. you ok? I know this isn't the broken hearted area, but I know what a broken heart feels like.. Not fun.. You ok??

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Posted: 07-10-07 12:44pm


Well, he's really the heartbroken one ^^ I've sort of felt things weren't right for months now, since last fall. So for me it wasn't sudden, but it was for him.

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Posted: 05-16-08 13:17pm


hey i know this thread's a bit old but i was just wondering if anyone could help me out. i find clitoral stimulation extremely easy and climax almost every day, sometimes several times! but as far as vaginal/gspot stimulation goes it's kind of weird. like if i am having sex, or am alone and putting pressure on my gspot, and am extremely turned on i start to squirt quite a bit. i actually really like the sensation of this, but, when i, or the person i am having sex with, tries to continue gspot stimulation while i'm squirting to bring me to orgasm i get uncomfortable very quickly as my gspot becomes much too sensitive and the friction makes it extremely unpleasurable. is this at all normal?? and does anyone know if the fact that i can already squirt through gspot stimulation means that it is possible for me to achieve a vaginal orgasm? i only discovered i could squirt recently and so i figured it had been the fear of peeing when i first got this sensation that made me pull back and be unable to really enjoy vaginal sex, but now i am totally comfortable with squirting i still can't do it - it's very frustrating, help!