So I just got married last week. {last
thursday} to an amazing guy. We have been
together for about 6 months, and have
known each other for years. We are very
happy together.
We live at his mom's house. {we both still
very young}, and she likes us living here.
We both love living here.
The only problem is my ex lives down the
road. The street over from us. Me &
him broke up over 6 months ago. We had
dated for over 3 years, and he TRIED to be
abusive, so I left him.
Threw out the 3 years, if we had broken up
or I had left he always tried to stop me,
or follow me, and he would ride past where
every I was living at all times during the
day/night. I knew it was going to be a
horrible break up. So I moved outside of
town to get away from him, and I lost all
contact with most of my friends to
recover. My husband was there for me the
whole time {being very supportive}.
I moved back into town about 2 months ago.
Once I decided to move back into town, I
knew my EX was going to figure out where I
was and was going to start riding past my
house. Thats exactly what happened. He
also started dating my cousin.
So now, during the day and all hours of
the night, they ride past my house. He has
a very loud radio, and he loves to play it
very loud with his windows down. I know I
shouldn't pay it any attention, and I try
not to, I should just ignore it, but its
very stressful. I could probably ignore
it, if it wasn't an everyday thing. I mean
sometimes he wakes me up at 2 and 3 oclock
in the morning. I know exactly who it is,
and I believe I wake up still because
when we were together and I'd leave and
he'd ride past where I was it used to
scare me. So its kind of like an instinct
to wake up.
I mean is it me or does he sound like he
seriously has some problems? I am married
now, and I wish he'd just leave me alone.
I have a stomach ulcer and since me him
ended it has been doing really well. I
have gained weight, I can eat and not get
sick. I am very happy. But him doing this
really gets me stressed out, and I know
there is nothing I can do about it.
My mother-in-law works for the sheriff's
office and is trying all she can to stop
the him, but its going to take time. &
my husband doesn't really know how much it
stresses me out, and I really don't want
him to worry.
