Problem Reaching Orgasm By Masturbation Posted: 03-30-07 15:25pm
I've never been able to have an orgasm by
regular means of masturbation. Using a
vibrators works but I'd like to be able to
do it by myself. I was wondering if there
was any way to help me be able to reach an
orgasm or if anyone had any advice. I'm 16
years old, and I'm a little embarrassed to
ask my mom.
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Tylanas
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Re: Problem Reaching Orgasm By Masturbation Posted: 03-30-07 15:42pm
Saint of Fayth
wrote:
I've never been able to have
an orgasm by regular means of
masturbation. Using a vibrators works but
I'd like to be able to do it by myself. I
was wondering if there was any way to help
me be able to reach an orgasm or if anyone
had any advice. I'm 16 years old, and I'm
a little embarrassed to ask my
mom.
Needing a vibrator or other form of
external stimulation of the clitoris is
totally normal.
What most women don't know is this:
1. Most women do not orgasm via the
vagina.
2. Most women have difficulty orgasming
via the clitoris without additional
stimulation beyond the fingers.
if you would like to try to orgasm just
using your fingers, then set out a long
patch of time... and just masturbate.
Don't necessarily go for orgasm, just go
for pleasure. Personally for me, a
side-to-side motion feels the best. If you
get frustrated, you can always finish with
the vibrator.
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Saint of Fayth
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Re: Problem Reaching Orgasm By Masturbation Posted: 03-30-07 20:06pm
Thanks for the advice. I was just looking
around on other websites before I found
this one and it said that using a vibrator
would "numb" the clitoris and make it
harder to enjoy sex. I'm not sexually
active, but it I plan to once I turn 18,
so I was a little worried.
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Tylanas
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Re: Problem Reaching Orgasm By Masturbation Posted: 03-30-07 22:07pm
Saint of Fayth
wrote:
Thanks for the advice. I was
just looking around on other websites
before I found this one and it said that
using a vibrator would "numb" the clitoris
and make it harder to enjoy sex. I'm not
sexually active, but it I plan to once I
turn 18, so I was a little
worried.
I haven't experinced any numbing XD
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 03-31-07 16:36pm
I've also read that vibrators can damage
the nerves, causing the need for more
stimulation. However, I can't comment more
on it other than that short blurp I've
read.
Another thing of interest I've read is
that histamine levels can play a role in
the ability to orgasm. High levels makes
it easier to achieve, and lower levels
makes it more difficult. Histamine is
created by the amino acid Histidine found
in proteins. It can be taken in supplement
form as well, since proteins contain other
amino acids, such as Methionine which
would actually decrease Histamine.
Of course, I'm not suggesting that's your
problem or that you should start
supplementing Histidine. A doctor could
test your Histamine levels, and perhaps be
able to give your more info on why you
have difficulty achieving orgasm.
