me and my boyfriend have unprotected sex
and I should have started my period
Saturday but instead later that night i
was bleeding little blood dots and i found
out thats spotting? i am not sure if that
counts as a period? ...and now im scared!
can anyone help me?
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-30-07 17:56pm
why do you have unprotected sex if you
don't want a baby?
wait a few days and take a pregnancy test,
you could very well be pregnant if you
have been having unprotected sex.
and next time please invest in some birth
control.
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anderson1609
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Posted: 03-30-07 18:00pm
even if he doesnt cum in you is that still
bad? i know like you still can get pregnet
if he doesnt? but like i dont really feel
any different?
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-30-07 18:17pm
yes you can still get pregnant if he
doesn't cum inside of you, it's called
precum and it contains sperm from his last
'load'
next time you have sex please, please use
birth control.
how old are you?
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anderson1609
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Posted: 03-30-07 19:06pm
i am 16....
i took a test yesterday but it was
negative? should i just like wait a few
days? because i know spotting doesnt
always mean your pregnet....but i dont
know what else it could be
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-30-07 19:27pm
Well your period was due last saturday
right? that's almost a week late...
I guess wait a little longer and take
another test, it takes some people longer
to get a positive result if they are
pregnant, if you still don't get your
period after that you should probably go
to the doctor and see about a blood test?
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anderson1609
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Posted: 03-30-07 19:55pm
my mom would kill meeeeeeee
im usually never late so thats why im like
freaking out...i dont know i asked my
cousin cause shes the one that told me
what spittong was and she told me that it
could be different things but she said she
really doesnt know
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-30-07 20:12pm
well don't tell your mom... right now at
least. go to planned parenthood (they can
do tests for you right guys?) and they
won't tell your parents anything. but if
you are pregnant you need to be prepared
to tell your parents, it might seem like
the end of the world but its not hun, not
speaking from personal experience but
there are lots of great girls on here
that'll tell you the same thing.
but please please please, if you aren't
pregnant, use this as a lesson ok? while
you're at planned parenthood get on the
pill and get some condoms on your way out!
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anderson1609
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Posted: 03-30-07 20:15pm
could that still have counted for my
period? cause ive never had that before so
like it was weird? could it be something
else? like bad else?
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-30-07 20:23pm
some people have spotting when they're
pregnant. when i first had sex it really
messed up my cycles, i was 5 days late and
i started spotting, i thought for sure i
was pregnant but my period ended up
coming.
i know its hard but you need to stop
worrying, haha i know that sounds silly.
but since you've been stressing it's
probably causing your period to be
delayed. (eh?)
it could be because you might be
pregnant... so i really think you should
wait a few more days, test and if it still
comes out neg then go to the doctor,
there's nothing else that we can tell you
here hun. but you can stick around and
give us updates.
