tinkinpink84
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Posted: 03-31-07 14:20pm
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So yeah them 2 really upset me well mostly
the one. so idid something i havent done
for a long time, i have no one here totalk
to or vent out on other then a computer
screen not a real person, nor do i share
my emotions with people. I hate that I did
it i want to take it back but i cant. I
think if jason goes to war ima go back to
my parents while hes gone but i will be
without a car it will be here LOCKED in my
garage. but i have family there and
friends, here i have nothing other then
jason and the kids. the plane ride will
suck with 2 kids under 2 but eh id do it
anyways just to get away from here. not to
mention the time difference too but eh.
gotta do what ya gotta do.
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 03-31-07 14:26pm
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i cut myself, i used to do it all the time
before my son was here. i never sought
therapy for it i was in therapy for an
eating disorder but she didnt know i cut.
I dont even know why i got so upset i
didnt ever wanna be friends with em
anymore after next week anyways but i did.
THey pretty much pulled out all they could
saying im a bad mom etc. and jasons not
here and no one is here and all my familys
at the airshow so icouldnt call them. and
jason didnt answer his phone . hes gonna
be mad when he comes back about it. i
think seriously i need to get back on my
anitdepressants.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-31-07 14:35pm
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the pills are probably a good idea hun, i
know it's hard when you can't be around
the people you love, what's jason going to
be mad at? surely he won't be mad at you,
you didn't do anything.
Don't listen to people, you're a great mom
and they obviously don't know what they're
talking about, if they are going to treat
you like that then you don't need to waste
your time being friends with them. You
can't listen to what everyone says about
you, you know yourself better than anyone
else does, and you know you're not a bad
mom, don't let them get to you like that.
im sorry you're having a hard time 
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 03-31-07 14:37pm
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jason will be mad about the cutting, he
always gets mad cuz he doesnt want me
doing it but its the only thing i know to
cope , especially when no one is here.
They arent friends anymore. I dont need
immature people talking behind my back, my
true friends in the states dont do that.
Sucks after i cut myself i wish i could go
back in time and erase it. but i cant
ugh i got a massiv eheadache now, i gotta
calll jason back soon when the phones
charge. i dont know if i wanna tell him
that i did that or not, im sur ehe will
notice when he is back.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-31-07 14:55pm
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just wait to tell him until he gets back
so he's not worried about you while he's
away, he only gets mad because he cares
about you. i've never had problems
cutting, my way to express anger has
always been crying which i do a lot. i
tried to cut one time, i didn't even know
why but i'd heard about it so i was upset
after the first time my uncle hit me and
so i went into the bathroom and tried
cutting myself but i guess i didn't want
to bad enough so i just layed on the
bathroom floor crying... crying feels good
when you're upset, i think it makes me
feel better.
but since i haven't had experience in it i
don't know that i have the right words to
help, because i can't tell you not to do
it that it's stupid, because i don't know
how you feel. maybe throw out anything
that you could use? so then you aren't
tempted... and talk to your doctor about
getting back on your pills, i hope those
help.
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 03-31-07 15:05pm
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yeah i havent told him icalled him back
talked and vented alittle. he might be on
24 hr confinement, pretend war stuff. so i
might not talk to him tomorow i dont think
. maybe ill go ot the px i got a gift card
with $58 on it. buy the kids some stuff.
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 03-31-07 15:07pm
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i think im going to bed now its 10pm, im
not upset or anythign anymore. i need
sleep. got a busy week next week
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Posted: 03-31-07 20:12pm
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get an elastic band and wear it on your
wrist and when you start losing your
temper or want to hurt yourself snap it.
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Posted: 03-31-07 20:26pm
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| tanyaface
wrote: | get an elastic band and wear
it on your wrist and when you start losing
your temper or want to hurt yourself snap
it.
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This only works if you have self control,
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 03-31-07 20:49pm
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| Sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | tanyaface
wrote: | get an elastic band and wear
it on your wrist and when you start losing
your temper or want to hurt yourself snap
it.
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This only works if you have self
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oh, haha. i saw it on degrassi once. i
guess giving advice according to what i
saw on a show aimed at pre teens isn't a
good idea.
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Posted: 03-31-07 21:03pm
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| tanyaface
wrote: | | Sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | tanyaface
wrote: | get an elastic band and wear
it on your wrist and when you start losing
your temper or want to hurt yourself snap
it.
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This only works if you have self
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oh, haha. i saw it on degrassi once. i
guess giving advice according to what i
saw on a show aimed at pre teens isn't a
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i just saw that on mtv's "true life: i
hurt myself" (or something like that).
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Posted: 04-01-07 09:23am
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| Sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | tanyaface
wrote: | get an elastic band and wear
it on your wrist and when you start losing
your temper or want to hurt yourself snap
it.
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This only works if you have self
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i left you a pm diane....and that actualy
does work tanya, for some people, just
because someone cuts doesnt mean they dont
have self control, it many times just
means they dont have proper coping methods
for problems, they never learned
how...that doesnt include the little whiny
emo kids whove made cutting popular
however, they do it for attention
~alicia~
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Posted: 04-01-07 10:31am
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| Idony
wrote: | | Sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | tanyaface
wrote: | get an elastic band and wear
it on your wrist and when you start losing
your temper or want to hurt yourself snap
it.
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This only works if you have self
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that doesnt include the little whiny emo
kids whove made cutting popular however,
they do it for attention
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Posted: 04-01-07 10:43am
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I'm so sorry .diane. I know you've got to
be having a hard time coping in a diff
country. And with no one around you, I can
see the temptation of cutting.
One of my good friends was a cutter, and
the rubber band method worked wonders for
her. SHe'd be snapping that band every
minute on the minute.
I'd rather see that, then the blood
pouring from her wrists.
I know you've heard this bookoo times,
but seriously, if you need to talk, pm
me...or hit me up on the myspace im!!
Sarah
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Posted: 04-01-07 11:24am
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yeah im glad i at least got you guys to
vent to and stuff, i have never tried that
rubberband method, my therapist brought up
about it with the eating disorder, i cant
quite get how it works with that that was
back in 2003-2004.
i saw that degrassi episode. i miss the
mtv true life show, we dont get it here in
english.
I am happy my parents just bought there
plane tickets to come here may 8th so i got one thing
to look forward to. i told jason when he
goes towar im going to fla he sok with it
and my parents are ok too. i just cant be
here alone with 2 kids for 6 mths or
longer.
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Posted: 04-01-07 15:58pm
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Immersing your arm in a container of ice
water works for some. The feeling of the
cold water is similar to the feeling that
people that self injure get from cutting.
I have also heard of people getting real
success from the rubber bands too.
You have to be able to recognize that you
are upset and willing to try to use a
different method of coping besides
cutting. For many cutting is easier and
they get the results they need
immediately, where as trying other methods
of coping isn't always a sure bet.
good luck to you
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Posted: 04-01-07 19:31pm
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I know that it didn't work for me and a
number of people that have tried it. but
it could work for you.
good luck with that.
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Posted: 04-02-07 10:31am
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It doesn't feel the same at all.
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