Both times that she has given me a
handjob, I have had to take over until i
am stimulated enough, then let her finish
me off. When i take over, I have to go
much 'harder' than i usually do when
masturbating by myself.
Is there a reason for this, or anything I
can do to help it?
I would really like for her to be able to
make me cum on her own, as I think she
feels a slight inadequacy when I have to
take over.
Thanks guys!
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Tylanas
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Re: I Can't Orgasm... Posted: 04-01-07 13:41pm
derro4003
wrote:
When my girlfriend trys to
get me off.
Both times that she has given me a
handjob, I have had to take over until i
am stimulated enough, then let her finish
me off. When i take over, I have to go
much 'harder' than i usually do when
masturbating by myself.
Is there a reason for this, or anything I
can do to help it?
I would really like for her to be able to
make me cum on her own, as I think she
feels a slight inadequacy when I have to
take over.
Thanks guys!
Well you've only tried twice; I wouldn't
get all depressed just yet.
Her hand is so different from yours, it's
obvious that she's going to have a
difficult time figuring out just how you
like it. Try taking her hand in yours, and
go through the movements. Not only is this
sexy, it's helpful for her to learn the
strokes you like Also, if you
normall use an "underhand" technique, have
her try overhand, she may be able to get
more stimulation out of you this way.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 04-01-07 13:53pm
It might be that you are a bit nervous and
not completely comfortable with her yet or
that she does not do it quite the way that
you like it yet, as Eiri suggested. It
does not sound like anything to worry
about. It's probably temporary.
Also, if you
normall use an "underhand" technique, have
her try overhand, she may be able to get
more stimulation out of you this way.