Ldr Ended And I Dont Know Why Posted: 04-02-07 05:39am
my ex-b/f and i were together for about 1
year. i met him in germany because he was
stationed here. in june 06 he had to go
back to the states but signed up again for
germany. he will be back in july 09.
i hadn't seen him since he left and we
planned a visit over christmas and new
years. we both were very excited. he
became very needy 2 months before my visit
and we both couldn't wait to see each
other.
but out of the blue he stopped talking to
me 2 weeks before my visit!!!
he hasn't picked up the phone neither
replied to any of my e-mails!
I flew anyways... he wasn't there. his mom
picked me up and I spent my supposily
visit at his parents house. they took good
care of me. we had a very bonding and fun
time together...
they havent heard frm their son neither
and couldnt get a hold of him. he didnt
call any of them for christmas and didnt
show up at all.
nobody knew and still doesnt know whats
going on.
that was along time ago but i cant get
over him. i know he loved me more than
anything. his mom said that, too. she
doesnt understand either.
what can i do?
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change is good
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2007 Posts: 112 Location: Mesa AZ.,
Posted: 04-02-07 05:52am
there isn't much you can do except try to
move on. when most relationships end, at
least one of the couple is left with
questions. we never get the answers we
need and eventually we move on. try
spending more time with friends and
family. do new things. his memory will
slowly fade. when you're ready you'll move
on.
best of luck
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-02-07 10:01am
have they really not heard from him at
all?has anyone heard from him?what if
something bad has happened?what if he went
somewhere else for his job?what if he went
a-wall?thre are so any questions and his
dissapearance might not have anything to
do with your relationship hun.
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wicky1986
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Apr 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 04-03-07 00:46am
well. that was christmas 06! they have
heard from him by now...
he has to go to iraq in may and is busy
with training i guess.
anyway.
so he is fine.
but can someone change his mind within one
day? thats what confuses me alot. it was
all fine and the other day he stopped
talking to me and most of his friends. and
he calls his family not as often as he
used to...
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Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2007 Posts: 112 Location: Mesa AZ.,
Posted: 04-03-07 05:51am
it sounds like going to iraq may have alot
to do with it. i am sure he is under a lot
of stress. give him some time and space.
