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Freaking Out
Posted: 04-02-07 21:14pm
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so my husband came home to tell me he will
find out wednesday if he is going to iraq
 its between him
and 2 other guys. it would be 9 mo in
theatre (actually there) and about 3 mo
training and debreifing so thats a full
year! im freaking out. i already took one
panic pill, think i need another one.
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Nataliachick7
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Re: Freaking Out
Posted: 04-02-07 21:15pm
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| macysmama
wrote: | | so my husband came home to
tell me he will find out wednesday if he
is going to iraq its between him
and 2 other guys. it would be 9 mo in
theatre (actually there) and about 3 mo
training and debreifing so thats a full
year! im freaking out. i already took one
panic pill, think i need another
one. |
i hope he doesnt go! that would be really
hard.
popping xanax 
its my friend, too. 
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 04-03-07 00:18am
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that sucks, i am in the same boat, well we
know my husband is going not to iraq but
afghanistant. its just a matter of when
and it will be this yr, imhoping later
when the kids are older. so the plane ride
back to fla isnt as rough. its almsot
inevitable they all get sent sooner or
later. so hard to deal with to, will this
be his first time going? my husband this
will be his 1st going to the war. it
sucks.
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Posted: 04-03-07 03:53am
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ya itll be his first time, i know its
gunna happen sooner or later im just not
ready. i cant even sleep im so worried. i
dont know what id do without him it makes
me mad that he doesnt get the gravity of
the situation.
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 04-03-07 06:00am
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ya thats how i am . liek you know you can
handle it but then when the time comes its
like a smack in the face . reality sets
in. my husband has his first will and
testimony and life insurance papers and
powers of attorney all ready in case. that
day he brought that home reality hit me
that its becoming real now. i am going to
my parents though for the time he is gone,
too much drama here for me to be here
alone with my kids on this small base
where i might run into that little girl
again. so id rather be around family etc.
plus we will be saving alota money and
getting BAH from florida he said. i just
wont have my car at my parents or anything
but in the long run it will be better.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-03-07 10:06am
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thats something stressful for ya.I'm sorry
dani!
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 04-03-07 10:10am
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err im sorry girl I totally know how you
feel I just found out yesterday mine will
leave in feb or march for a year .. ERR
worst feeling ever!!
Im crossing my fingers for you
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-03-07 11:13am
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I am sorry dani, My bil just got back. i
am so happy for that. It's nice having
someone around the house....but he may
have to go back in a month or so. so we
will see.
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Idony
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Posted: 04-03-07 11:25am
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im really sorry to hear that
i hope he doesnt have to go, thatd really
suck
my dh is leaving for bahrain (not quite
the same but still dangerous-ish) in july
as its set now, about a month after his
daughter is due, thankfully he is going to
be here for her birth though
vanessa, does that mean hes not going to
be able to see his daughters birth or
after for like half a year or something?
that sucks, im really sorry
i hate the thought of trevor leaving, his
daughter is going to be at least 7 monthes
when he gets back, shes not even gonna
know him and hes not gonna know her
i dont know how so many people do it where
they leave before the baby is born and get
back after, i dont think i would be able
to handle that
~alicia~
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Posted: 04-03-07 23:51pm
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we find out tomorrow, its now only down to
him or one other guy which basically means
if it isnt him tomorrow hell be on the
next one out for sure. Part of me wants
him to go because this billet is for a
surgical tech which more than likely means
hell be at a camp doing surgery so thats
better that a field corpsman where he goes
out with the troops that are in the line
of fire. Im seriously considering going
back to FL too. I know ill go for a while,
i just cant decide if Im gunna move out
and pocket the bah or not cuz i dont wanna
deal with moving back in
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 04-04-07 12:27pm
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Yikes! That sucks .dani. If I were in your
position, I too would want my hubby to go
this time around, and be in the surgery
tent....because if he's already gotta go
one of these times, it's better to go
sooner....then he'll be back that much
sooner.
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Posted: 04-04-07 13:43pm
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hes suppose to call as soon as he finds
anything out but i cant find my phone!!
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 04-04-07 13:45pm
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Uh oh! do you have a house phone? I guess
not since he's calling your cell.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 04-04-07 14:47pm
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Good luck!!! I'm with you though, I'd
rather have him go on the less dangerous
mission!! Too bad he has to go at all!!
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