Okay jesse's sister is vanessa. She is 15
and we all know she's not a virgin. She
told me and jesse once she's been with 6
guys, which I think is a lot for a 15 year
old. Well today I was cleaning and hidden
in the couch cushions is a list of people
she'd been with. It's 16 people!! okay i'm hoping i'm
not offending anyone here but at 15 that
is way too many people! What should I do?
Should I tell her mom what? Me and
vanessa are really good friends so I dont
want to break her trust.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 02-17-04 17:38pm
I think you should talk to her! That is
way too many! Oh my gosh! Are you sure
thats not how many shes only kissed??
Talk to her or her mom, then tie her legs
shut...Hehehe. She is going to risk
pregnancy that way
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 02-17-04 18:14pm
Hey jill,
if I were in your shoes I would most
definitely sit his sister down and talk to
her about it in private....Don't lash out
on her or make her feel like she's a
little girl who doesn't know any
better...Treat her like an adult and
maturely ask her why she feels like she
has to be with so many people...Ask her if
she wants to end up being pregnant by a
guy who she was with for one night and
never hear from him again...Point out all
the risks that come with multiple sex
partners(intercourse or not)....Stds,
aids, pregnancy...She's still young, she
can still direct her life in the way she
wants...And i'm sure she doesn't wanna be
stuck at home with a crying baby while her
friends are out at the movies hooking up
with the *cutest boys*....She's 15, so
what, she's a soph in highschool? Damn
that was only last year for me....And yep
I was out at the movies, hooking up,
parties, drinking, having the best time
ever....I'm sure she doesn't wanna give
that up...I know I have absolutely no
problem *growing up so soon* because being
a mom has always been such a dream for me,
maybe not this soon, but i'm thankful I
can even have kids....I should become a
motivational speaker lol I have so much to
say about this stuff...But point is,
however you approach this, make sure you
do it in an adult manner..Or she'll shut
you out...Be calm and chill about it, but
alert....And i'm sure she'll respond
positively....Best of luck girl...Let me
know how it goes!
Much love,
nessa & peanut
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 02-17-04 18:38pm
Hey,
if it is true about jesses sister you
should sit her down and talk to her about
it..Dont yell or get mad at her. If it is
true get ehr on some birth control and buy
her condoms!!!!!!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 02-17-04 18:44pm
Oh my lord-she needs a good talking
too.That slutty-im sorry but thats just
what I think
Well, I wouldnt' say talk to her mother
yet. I would talk to her... Dont' make
her feel like a child. Hell, make her
watch she's too young on lifetime! Lol.
It'll get the message across! This is a
serious issue someone needs to talk about
with her. I am 17 and i've only been with
the 1 guy I am with now...
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003 Posts: 3022 Location: Iowa
Posted: 02-17-04 23:50pm
She actually wants a baby. I always tell
her how hard it is and everything but she
says that she dont care and that she is
jealous of me for being pregnant. I've
taken her to get pregnancy tests and get
on birth control but she wont use it,i
gave her condoms she wont use them either.
I'm going to talk to her about it.
Yeah I know it's all the guys she's been
with cause I know of several guys she's
kissed that were not on there and every
guy she told me she had been with was,
plus a few.
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Jaydensmommy
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Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1770 Location: , USA
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Posted: 02-18-04 00:17am
Make her take care of your kids for a few
days and dont help her at all! See how
she feels about it then.
okay i'm hoping i'm
not offending anyone here but at 15 that
is way too many people! What should I do?
Should I tell her mom what? Me and
vanessa are really good friends so I dont
want to break her trust.
