Boyfriend Can't Seem to "finish" =/ Posted: 04-02-07 22:38pm
I feel pretty bad actually.
My boyfriend is a virgin, and we haven't
had sex yet but we've decided we're going
to in the future. But we do other stuff
right now and I feel bad because he can
always give me an orgasm but I can't ever
get him to finish ... i've tried lots of
stuff but I don't know what to do. I
suggested that he masturbate and see what
he likes and then tell me, and he tried
but he said he couldn't get himself to do
it either ... i've never heard of this
before. Can anyone give me advice?
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Tylanas
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Re: Boyfriend Can't Seem to "finish" =/ Posted: 04-02-07 22:57pm
BeautifulLiesx3
wrote:
I feel pretty bad actually.
My boyfriend is a virgin, and we haven't
had sex yet but we've decided we're going
to in the future. But we do other stuff
right now and I feel bad because he can
always give me an orgasm but I can't ever
get him to finish ... i've tried lots of
stuff but I don't know what to do. I
suggested that he masturbate and see what
he likes and then tell me, and he tried
but he said he couldn't get himself to do
it either ... i've never heard of this
before. Can anyone give me
advice?
He is clearly nervous about finishing
around you; and considering he's a virgin,
I'm not surprised. This isn't a physical
condition or a serious mental one; he's
just nervous! Give the boy some love, some
patience, and maybe don't make his orgasm
the highlight of your sexual encounters.
Just do what you've done, but let
yourselves focus on you. If
he gets excited enough about you and your
pleasure, he will relax and eventualy be
comfortable enough to orgasm around you.
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BeautifulLiesx3
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2006 Posts: 77
Posted: 04-03-07 08:17am
=) Mmkay, thank you. Yeah I told him not
to worry so much about me that I wanted to
make him happy too.
