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Mommy_2_b

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We Lost Them Both
Posted: 02-17-04 18:10pm

Well i'm sorry to have to tell you girls. Melissa started hemorraging and we went into emergency c-section. Which was fine but she was losing soo much blood and the twins heart beats were dropping so quickly. By the time we got to the c-section we lost both of them. I've had a lot of people try to tell me i'm lieing but I wouldnt lie about this and I thought you guys would know better than that. I'm on my way back to the hospital to see melissa shes heavily sedated and doesnt even know yet because of all the medication. Please put her in your prayers.
Jake
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HomecomingQueen2003

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:11pm

Wait don't be quick to believe this! Just hold on girls!!

Meg
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Mommy_2_b

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:14pm

Ok then don't believe me i'm her fiance but sure dont believe it. Wait till she comes home. Then see what you want. I'm sorry ya don't trust me. ~
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HomecomingQueen2003

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:16pm

You know something you called her your girlfriend before, you don;t sound the least bit sympathetic to melissa or for the fact that you just lost your kids, you are blunt and I just don't trust that!


Meg, if you girls need anything or want to talk .P.L.E.A.S.E. Call me!


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CrombieChic16

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:19pm

Ok i'm pretty speechless right now!!...If this is true, i'm shocked, and my deepest sympathies....And yeah meg's right, you don't seem too heart broken about this...And if it's not true...Whoever is saying this disgusts me.....Meg..What's going on, have you heard anything??
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Mommy_2_b

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:23pm

I almost lost the girl I loved with all my heart and I lost the children I loved as my own. I'm sorry if I dont sound sympathetic to you guys, honestly if you could see me i'm here still crying. But I cant make you believe what you dont want to
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CrombieChic16

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:24pm

Wait a sec....Didnt melissa have a family member that used to come on here and talk crap about her and the twins? It was some girl, I forget her name...I'm sorry but i'm not believing anything until I have proof of whats going on
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Darling

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:32pm

I remember the girl's name was misty. Thats what I was thinking vanessa. It has nothing to do with not trusting jake however with whats gone on in the forums before its difficult to beleive something like this.
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Mommy_2_b

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:33pm

Ok maybe you guys should realize that when melissa comes home *hopefully soon* that when she reads the way you reacted its going to hurt her. I've known her for so many years. I know her likes shes a part of me. I love her I loved those kids, they were so beautiful even when I saw them, perfect just like her...
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Darling

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:35pm

She shouldn't be hurt jake because if this is true I am incredibly sorry. Melissa is such a strong beautiful woman and I wished nothing for the best for her it's just very difficult to digest. You will both be in my prayers.
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CrombieChic16

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:36pm

Yeah that's what her name was....If this is jake, and if this is true, i'm absolutely in shock, and i'm so incredibly sorry, but you also have to understand that there have been a few incidents where people have led us to believe that *our girls* have been involved in tragic accidents etc...This is a shock and unexpected, as were the previous misleadings...My heart goes out to melissa if this is infact the truth...Jake, may I ask why you're not with your...Girlfriend, fiance...At the hospital?

You're all in my thoughts,
vanessa
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sparklypixie12

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:38pm

Please god dont let this be true Crying
or Very sad
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smith8500

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Posted: 02-17-04 18:44pm

I won't let myself get tooo upset until I knwo if this is truth........ Crying
or Very sad
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JillMarie

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Posted: 02-17-04 19:33pm

Where is youngmomtobe? She is relly close to melissa
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honeycoco

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Posted: 02-17-04 19:43pm

Melissa I am so sorry for your loss sweetie. My prayers are with you

chrystal
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JillMarie

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Posted: 02-17-04 19:47pm

Dont be so sad everyone we think this is a joke by her cousin
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smith8500

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Posted: 02-17-04 19:49pm

While it may be the truth....We aren't too sure. Ok, nikki and I tried to call.
A guy answered and said he was jake. A girl got on the phone and said she was melissa. But these two people were extremely rude and didnt' hardly talk. We think someone's playign a jessika/austin joke again. Possibly misty, her evil cousin.... Pray for she and the baby's safety, but don't get too upset yet.
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JillMarie

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Posted: 02-17-04 20:04pm

Thanks for telling everyone chanda! I hope it's not true. I still dont think jake would go home and write to us if he just lost two babies. And I also dont think he would spend 23 minutes typing back and forth to us.(i looked at the times of the posts)
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Jaydensmommy

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Posted: 02-17-04 20:31pm

Omg I wanna know whats going on!

~sara~
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youngmomtobe

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Posted: 02-17-04 21:11pm

Hey girls I just found out...Hmmmm.....Im not soo sure this is true first he told me that if anything happened he would email me I have no email second!! That doesnt sounds like the way he talks ya know?? I talked to him on messenger earlier and he was a lil more sympathetic then he is now!! We get to the bottom of this no one freak out yet it will be okay!!!!


Jen & river
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