I Just Don't Understand This.... Posted: 04-03-07 12:23pm
I just found out from a friend of mine
that someone she knows is pregnant again.
She has one child and is not married, and
not with the father. She is getting an
abortion with the baby she is pregnant
with now. The part that makes me mad is
that this is her 8th pregnancy!!!!
.W.H.A.T???? I am having a hard enough
time getting pregnant with one child and
this girl has already killed 6 babies and
about to abort her 7th. At what point
would you wake up and realize - hey I
might want to protect myself next time I
decide to go sleeping around. What makes
this story even worse is that they are all
by different men. People like that should
be forced to become steril or something.
She isn't on birth control and chooses not
to get on it. I don't know I would have
to say that I would be running to the
doctors after I got pregnant with the
first unwanted child let alone 7 unwanted
children.
Urggggg this makes me sooo mad.
Sorry I had to get that out
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-03-07 12:25pm
That is seriously frustrating. I am upset
with you. It really does seem like the
people who deserve it least seem to be the
one to get pregnant easiest. I feel for
you!
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Posted: 04-03-07 12:36pm
mc4ever02
wrote:
That is seriously
frustrating. I am upset with you. It
really does seem like the people who
deserve it least seem to be the one to get
pregnant easiest. I feel for
you!
Sorry Mc, I had to read that like 3 times.
I really thought you were saying you were
mad at me. I was like - what the flip???
I can only imagine if this girl would have
been forced to have those babies. She
would have never been able to handle that.
She is real young to. I think after all
these abortions, she would have a hard
time actually going full term with a
"wanted" baby.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-03-07 12:45pm
Sorry, I guess I really didn't read that
through someone else's eyes. I
should have said that I am as upest as you
are with the situation.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 04-03-07 13:11pm
Gah this really annoys me too, i mean if
you don't want to get pregnant then there
is a little thing called contraception
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Posted: 04-03-07 19:33pm
Dannzibelle
wrote:
Gah this really annoys me
too, i mean if you don't want to get
pregnant then there is a little thing
called
contraception
.
I know it irks the h*ll out of me. First
of all why would you do that to your body
in the first place. This is just as bad
if not worse than taking the morning after
pill repetitively just because you can't
be responsible and use protection to not
get pregnant. They obviously don't want
to have kids.
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Volaremos
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Joined: 09 Aug 2006 Posts: 421
Posted: 04-03-07 22:47pm
I feel for you star. i so hate ppl having
unprotected sex to end up getting preg
& having abortions.
its so frustrating.
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littlesqueaks
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Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
Posted: 04-03-07 22:54pm
I think that carma will one day come
around and bite her in the butt. Your day
will come be patient it will happen when
you least expect it.
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babeez
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 31 Location: Rochester, NY
Posted: 04-11-07 12:21pm
I'm with you...there is a girl I work with
that got married 3 months before me...she
was pregnant when she got married...she
knows my husband and I have been tryying
to get pregnant and she keeps telling me
that we shoudln't cause her and her
husband wish they waited two years. i
cannot fathom someone wishing their
beautiful baby boy wasn't around...it
makes me so angry to know that while
peopel like us struggle to have a baby,
there are people like that, that don't
want/appreciate the life they created. So
unfair...on another note..if I hear "just
relax and stop trying and it will happen"
or "it will happen when it's meant to
happen" one mroe time I'm going to kill
someone.
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PrincessRed
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Alberta
Posted: 04-11-07 12:46pm
I know the feelig of being told to many
times...it will happen...just be
patient...you get tired of hearing it and
tired of waiting. I have a friend who a
few years ago got pregnant and aborted
it...only to be pregnant again 3 months
later and KEEP IT!!! It made me so mad
that we haven't spoken to them since!!
Sorry, I guess I really didn't read that
through someone else's eyes. 
