Joined: 03 Jul 2007 Posts: 49 Location: san francisco!, california
Posted: 07-28-07 02:48am
as shallow as it seems, i understand... if
you were to make love to a person you
weren't physically attracted to, it
wouldn't be so great.. physiscal
attraction plays a big role even tho a lot
of us don't want to admit our vanity....
the right person takes a while.
just be patient.
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greekjohn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2006 Posts: 100 Location: Toronto, Ontario,
Posted: 08-04-07 23:41pm
pronetoillness
wrote:
as shallow as it seems, i
understand... if you were to make love to
a person you weren't physically attracted
to, it wouldn't be so great.. physiscal
attraction plays a big role even tho a lot
of us don't want to admit our vanity....
the right person takes a while.
just be
patient.
Exactly, what would it be like for me? It
might be fun but not great and her
thinking its real love. And then just
say I were to get her pregnant. What do I
do then? Stick with her just because of
the kid?
So I'm just waiting for the right person.
I've made a few mistakes over the course
of my high school career. Both with
school and with the ladies. When I look
back and think thats those girls that I
messed up on that one of them could have
been the right girl. I messed up on 6
girls and if you include this girl then
the tally is 7. If things were different
with this girl and when I mean by
different I mean my feelings of physical
attraction then I can guarantee that she
could have been the right girl. So I'm
just being very patient right now. I have
3 girls in mind that I would like to ask
out. But I'm very iffy on it. The one
girl is going to university to become a
lawyer and my dad's aunt is overprotected
with her son on him dating lawyers and I'm
scared my dad my throw the same caca with
me as well as I'm going to become a
general contractor and I'm going to be
getting some payment in ca$h and lawyer =
law. The second girl has been eye balling
me for the longest of time at church
however I don't see her all the time
either I don't go or she doesn't go but I
don't know her age I thought I herd
someone say she is my age but I also
thought I herd an older friend of mine
talking to her about university and it
makes me wonder if she is 3 years older
like my friend, 1 year older does not
bother me. The third girl
is my age/grade, however her sister and my
brother (same age/grade) are the best of
friends and may even be bf and gf cause
she calls every day and they talk for like
an hour, now she is friends with my
brother as well but what I don't want to
like break her heart and then my brother
looses not only one friend (her) but his
friend (her sister) .
