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loverloo
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Seriously, Whats the Matter With Me?
Posted: 04-05-07 00:47am
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Everytime I meet a guy I honestly think I
like, if he admits to feelings towards me
as well, I freak out! I will suddenly feel
like he's suffocating me or like he's out
to get me, and then the crush I once had
dissapears and I can't stand the guy. I'm
17, will I outgrow this? Whats the matter
with me?!?!!?!?
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The Godly One
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Re: Seriously, Whats the Matter With Me?
Posted: 04-05-07 03:34am
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| loverloo
wrote: | | Everytime I meet a guy I
honestly think I like, if he admits to
feelings towards me as well, I freak out!
I will suddenly feel like he's suffocating
me or like he's out to get me, and then
the crush I once had dissapears and I
can't stand the guy. I'm 17, will I
outgrow this? Whats the matter with
me?!?!!?!? |
Probably nothing.
You are just encountering some desperate
guys.
A guy who spills his heart is not for
you.
At 17, there are many things that you will
outgrow BTW.
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change is good
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Location: Mesa AZ.,
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Posted: 04-05-07 06:11am
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there's nothing wrong with you. you're
young, and just need to find a guy looking
to have a good time. not one that will
bare his soul. give it some time and i'm
sure you'll find someone. you're only 17.
there's no need to be serious at your age.
take yopur time and the right guy will
come along.
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loverloo
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Posted: 04-06-07 00:21am
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But I freak out even when they aren't
suffocating me. i think it's all in my
head or something..
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change is good
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Location: Mesa AZ.,
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Posted: 04-06-07 05:58am
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maybe freaking out is just your way of
telling yourself you are not ready to be
with someone.
what exactly do you mean by freaking out?
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-06-07 10:11am
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| change is good
wrote: | maybe freaking out is just
your way of telling yourself you are not
ready to be with someone.
what exactly do you mean by freaking
out? |
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loverloo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 04-06-07 17:55pm
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by freaking out i mean that i get
depressed, and really uneasy and i feel
like crawling out of my skin. I've met
some guys that i honestly thought i'd want
to be with but then i ruin it.
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DPantelones
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Posted: 04-08-07 11:34am
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| loverloo
wrote: | | by freaking out i mean that
i get depressed, and really uneasy and i
feel like crawling out of my skin. I've
met some guys that i honestly thought i'd
want to be with but then i ruin
it. |
Maybe talking to the person you're having
these feelings about would help, have you
tried that? Maybe they'll think you're
nuts and run away, or maybe they could
help you...
Have you considered counseling to find out
why this happens?
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loverloo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 04-08-07 23:57pm
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I have tried talking to them and
explaining the way that i am, and he said
he'd help me through it and maybe i'd stop
eventually and get used to it, but it
didnt work because i gave up after about a
month I have considered counceling but i
don't know how to start..
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xximaginativexmindsxx
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Location: Mississippi
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Re: Seriously, Whats the Matter With Me?
Posted: 04-09-07 00:00am
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| loverloo
wrote: | | Everytime I meet a guy I
honestly think I like, if he admits to
feelings towards me as well, I freak out!
I will suddenly feel like he's suffocating
me or like he's out to get me, and then
the crush I once had dissapears and I
can't stand the guy. I'm 17, will I
outgrow this? Whats the matter with
me?!?!!?!? |
Maybe you are afraid of commitment?
That could always be a reason
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loverloo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 04-16-07 00:43am
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How do i become unafraid of commitment?
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paul995
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Posted: 05-06-07 18:17pm
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I do feel you. I feel that way as well
when it's pretty obvious that someone
likes me. I feel like I'm suffocating. I
think it's pretty normal. You're just
probably not into relationships right now.
You're still young. Enjoy going out with
guys.
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