Done With This ..sorry Guys

Well hun u also have to understand when u care about someone and u want to help them of course wree gonna get amd if they lie..We do nothing here but try and support ppl becasue we care...And when ppl come on here and take advantage thats not fair because the ppl who do care get worried and they dont need that. Im not saying anyone is lying but when u care I guess its diff..

Well I just think if he is honest thats crap. I mean, im not attackin n e sides, cuz I dont know whats true, but for ppl to call him a liar...If its true...Hes prollly in a lota pain right now and thats really not guna help matters...
Love mol

I agree marisa. I think melissa would be happy we were trying to find out what was going on with her!!!!!!!!!!! Thats what friends are for and we are here for support thats why we are so concerned with whats going on. Personally I don't think he would sit on here and reply to us about whats going on. I know I sure as he** wouldn't if my two children just died. I don't even think I would come on here and tell anyone even if melissa said so!!!

~sara~

Hun no 1 attacked him at all..It is just ahrd to belive with the past of her cousin and stuff gettin on and bad mouthing her..So what should we belive..Were not going to stress out beacsue we dont know the truth but her prayers are with all of u and im sure of that we want nothing more then a wondeful person like her to be happy, but your coming at everyone like we are the rudest ppl and blah blah..We just care and I think your kinda wrong for being so rude to the girls who care

Well, sorry to see ya go.
But you have to understand. When something like this happens. We worry. Were you here when we were told that jessika and austin were killed in a horrible automobile crash? We you here when we started crying to think that cheyenne, a newborn was without her mother and father? Maybe not, but it was horrible. Only to find out that it's bull. I just called at melissa house, where someone said that she was her mother and that she was fine in bed.... Well, tell me how she is her mother when melissa lost all of her family in a car accident....... Maybe it was jakes mother. She could have said mother-in-law. We aren't trying to call anyone a lier. We are trying to find truth in this so no one must worry about something that might be false!
Leave.....It's ok. We'll miss you but it a choice you must make. Yes, if melissa comes back and say's hey guys, it's true. I will be first in line to apologize to jake but I honestly think mel would understand why we were so reluctant to accept his story.
K.
Love,chanda

Melissa and I have talked since january thank you. And for saying that I dont care is attacking me, and im simple saying if your children passed away you wouldnt want ppl callin u a liar. Thats all- I wasnt attacking what u all are doing at all..

I wana know what happened too but the truth will come out and im simply saying I wouldnt want my boyfriend to be crapped on cuz ppl didnt believe him? Thats gota be a bit hurtful. If mel told him to tell you guys youre disrespecting her wishes too, because she knows we all care about her and everything so she wants us to know whats going on.

Im not sayin oh ur wrong, ur rude blah blah blah...

I just dont see the support when u are calling someone a liar..

But what do I kno? I mean im 16 and pregnant...

Mol

Hun..Belive me we do feel horrible..But we just want to know all the facts first..And im sure you do care alot..And thats awesome..Were not attcking anyone! Belive me and if I come off like that im truly sorry I would feel horrible and like chanda said if it is true we will be the first in line saying sorry and having are prayers with them...

We arnt here to support ppls boyfriends!

Don't turn this into an us you situation. No one said anythign bad about you except that we defend what we're doing. We care about melissa, I am sure you do to, and we're trying to find out if this is bull. We would have stopped with the phone calls, had the 1st time I call "she" not gotten on the phone. But mol, I called. And "melissa" got on the phone. How in the hell did she manage that sweetie? If it really was her, then the post is bullsh*t. Then if it wasn't really her, then someone in her own house was making trouble for someone who just lost her kid. See the logic mol?

Everyone just needs to calm down here!! Molly, when people are worried about those they love, they panic! We love melissa so much and don’t want anything bad to happen to her and her babies and there are sooo many unanswered questions right now, so everyone get off each others backs and take a deep breath!’

meg

Chanda you are sooooo right....

Yes, but they are together...And they are makin a family..Just like danny and i...I mean when ur still with the guy its rough too..And different ....Theres mommies here, but for every mommy theres a daddy too...And even some who have been hurt by daddies, thats a living fact...And nevertheless jake is a daddy...And I dont think we should jump to conclusions..Im not saying any of u did, im simply saying weigh out possiblities and then speak...Some ppl called jake a liar...Simply.."youre lying" and I understand getting the facts...But other ppl have taken a lil too aggressive of an approach...

Love mol

Molly, explain the phone then sweetie?
Thanks,.
Chanda

Okay there was no need for this post...Now all it is doing is causing a fight again. And you all wonder why ppl leave and get so hostile.
~sara~

Well, maybe she knows how some people reacted...And in that case didnt want to talk about it..I dont know but no one needs to attack jakes conscience directly..Cuz even like u said... We dont know all the facts yet. Who knows...I wouldnt know, and youre all right. Im not tryin to get anyone all upset..I just think its a tad upsetting..

Sry girlys
mol

Whatever molly. We'll miss ya. Come around once in a while.

Dont be sorry. I just think people need to realize that this is not a fricken perfect world. Yes we are here for support, but your not always going to see stuff that you agree with and like. We need to suck it up and deal with it. People need to be free to express their feelings w/out ppl getting mad at them and calling them rude and such.

~sara~

Molly I don't think anyone intentionally attacked jake however the facts aren't straight and while trying to not be accusatory we are all very confused and want to get to the bottom of it. There are so many things that dont add up and don't make sense we simply dont want to fall for one of the many sick jokes that has been perpetrated by family members of those on the forum. Because of past experiences in the forum we are hesitant and cautious and while outrightly calling jake a liar isn't the answer we did have some questions. I am desperately concerend and my questions were asked simply to shed some light on whats going on. I think the fact that we are so concerened shows how supportive we are. Anyways i'm not sure what else to say other then I know i'm much more cautious now because I dont want to go through an emotional rollercoaster and then find out its a lie.
Love
tanya

Exactly... But im completely bias on this issue..I even said that from the begining that it was "rude" if he was infact being honest.. Not otherwise.. And if im wrong I owe everyone here an apoligy and I will do that..I garentee I will give one.

..Im not leavin the forum dont get me wrong..I mean I need a place like this being a pregnant teen and all there is a lot of encouragement and venting room..With all the pregnant emotions and everything ya kno?U girls alll know how that is though right?Lol- but im not tryin to fight with ne one lol- this forums seen enough fighters in its days

love mol