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H*D*O*L*L
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Someone Plzzzz Help!!!!! :(
Posted: 04-06-07 00:55am
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 04-06-07 01:38am
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.you need to get a blood test to tell who
the father is. .in the end it is up to
you to decide what to do with your child's
future and no one on an internet chat
forum can help you with that. .i wish you
all the best and .i hope that everything
turns out ok for you and especially your
child. .from what it sounds like .d is
being a great father to your baby and in
reality that is all that matters. .who
the baby looks like is not nearly as
important as who the baby will decide to
model her life after, but at this point
the choice of her male role model is
entirely up to you.
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Hart74
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H*d*o*l*l
Posted: 04-07-07 00:20am
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If I'm in your situation, I'll stick with
D but to put my mind at ease I do the
blood test as what the other poster told
you and who cares who's the father even if
the other guy is the biolocal father - the
important thing that is your child have a
good father (D) and a good grandparent
that all your child needs -T.L.C. all the
best good luck
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*star*
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Posted: 04-10-07 08:16am
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-10-07 10:02am
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*H*D*O*L*L,if he loves the child and
doesn't care if he isn't the father,if he
loves her anyway and he changes her
diapers,you don't need a paternity test to
tell you who that father is.there is a
difference between a father and a sperm
donor.If it is really bothering you,save
$$$ for the test but let him know no
matter how it comes out he will always be
her daddy!god luck.oh btw,how old are you?
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H*D*O*L*L
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Posted: 04-13-07 20:06pm
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DPantelones
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Posted: 04-21-07 01:55am
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| H*D*O*L*L
wrote: | Thanx *star*, i dont really
care, i juss let ppl talk they wanna live
a miserable life let them, u know. and to
melissa, im still 17, il be 18 soon
though. Just to let u all know im a proud
mother!! okay well first of all i realized
is doesnt really matter to me or him, he
juss loves her just as much if was or not
the father, but we dont care, so ya!! so
thanx people for replying it made my mind
at ease!!!  |
I'm so glad to hear you say that, about
being a proud mother! Too many girls
your age, with child, try to play out
their "wild days" while raising a child,
and the child suffers. You do the right
thing for that kid and all the good will
come back to you! I'm proud of you!
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Makoto
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Posted: 04-22-07 19:13pm
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The biologica father has a right to know
who. It does not matter if the other guy
loves the child or not, the biological
father has every right and responsibility
to the child.
I would be very upset if some one was
hiding a child of mine from me. I would
demand to have a paternity test done.
There is always Maury.
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NWKC
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Posted: 04-22-07 19:48pm
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| iridescent_opal
wrote: | | .you need to get a blood
test to tell who the father is. .in the
end it is up to you to decide what to do
with your child's future and no one on an
internet chat forum can help you with
that. .i wish you all the best and .i
hope that everything turns out ok for you
and especially your child. .from what it
sounds like .d is being a great father to
your baby and in reality that is all that
matters. .who the baby looks like is not
nearly as important as who the baby will
decide to model her life after, but at
this point the choice of her male role
model is entirely up to
you. |
I agree with every word you said. you put
it in perfect context.
Although, just like Makoto had said...the
biological has the right.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-23-07 09:03am
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| Makoto
wrote: | The biologica father has a
right to know who. It does not matter if
the other guy loves the child or not, the
biological father has every right and
responsibility to the child.
I would be very upset if some one was
hiding a child of mine from me. I would
demand to have a paternity test done.
There is always
Maury. |
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Makoto
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Posted: 04-23-07 19:16pm
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He maybe a sperm donor, but there are many
many men out there that feel more than
that. If I had a child out there I would
want to know, and be apart of his/hers
life. Not only that, I have a right to be
apart of my child's life.
Next any woman who thinks the biologica
father is JUST a sperm donor should leave
it at that. If they are going to treat the
biological fathers as nothing more than
meat, then they(the mothers) should not go
around demanding money and support from
the fathers. You can not have it both
ways. "You are nothing but a sperm donor,
you can not call the baby yours. But
where's my money????" Sorry that is just
wrong.
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NWKC
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Posted: 04-24-07 02:38am
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| Makoto
wrote: | He maybe a sperm donor, but
there are many many men out there that
feel more than that. If I had a child
out there I would want to know, and be
apart of his/hers life. Not only that, I
have a right to be apart of my child's
life.
Next any woman who thinks the biologica
father is JUST a sperm donor should leave
it at that. If they are going to treat the
biological fathers as nothing more than
meat, then they(the mothers) should not go
around demanding money and support from
the fathers. You can not have it both
ways. "You are nothing but a sperm donor,
you can not call the baby yours. But
where's my money????" Sorry that is just
wrong. |
If I had one, I would want to know as
well.
Not to be disrespectful to the women on
ehealth, but surely most women don't know
how it is to be deprived of money when
they don't even know who that baby belongs
to. I'm sorry but I agree fully with
Makoto.
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H*D*O*L*L
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Posted: 04-25-07 00:12am
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NWKC
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Posted: 04-25-07 00:21am
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| H*D*O*L*L
wrote: | | O btw how do i delete this
post i tried to long time ago but i didnt
know how,
lol. |
just leave it, in case there are similar
problems with other posters.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-26-07 07:12am
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| Makoto
wrote: | He maybe a sperm donor, but
there are many many men out there that
feel more than that. If I had a child out
there I would want to know, and be apart
of his/hers life. Not only that, I have a
right to be apart of my child's life.
Next any woman who thinks the biologica
father is JUST a sperm donor should leave
it at that. If they are going to treat the
biological fathers as nothing more than
meat, then they(the mothers) should not go
around demanding money and support from
the fathers. You can not have it both
ways. "You are nothing but a sperm donor,
you can not call the baby yours. But
where's my money????" Sorry that is just
wrong. |
I can see where your coming from with
that.if it was the other way around I
would feel the way you are talking.many
women don't look at it like that.
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Makoto
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Posted: 04-26-07 11:23am
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Mellisa, I like you.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-26-07 12:10pm
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| Makoto
wrote: | | Mellisa, I like you. |
 Really?I thought
you hated me!
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DPantelones
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Posted: 04-26-07 12:37pm
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Just for the record, I'm a sperm donor
also. Active. I'm just sayin'!
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-26-07 14:02pm
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| DPantelones
wrote: | | Just for the record, I'm a
sperm donor also. Active. I'm just
sayin'! |
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Makoto
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Posted: 04-27-07 11:23am
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Just because we disagree alot does not
mean anything personal. I respect the fact
you are trying to help.
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