Problem With Pregnancy And the Dh Posted: 04-06-07 12:50pm
He no longer wants to have sex because he
feels like the baby knows... I know this
is a normal thing that guys get when their
wives get bigger and i told him, "do you
remember being in your mom's tummy?" all
the same he says he feels like shes
watching him.. Is there anything that I
can do?
I realize this is probably going to get
moved but id love to hear advice from
people who are going through the same
thing or have gone through the same
thing... Thanks guys!
i dont think i can last 14 more weeks with
little to no sex and i know its just going
to get worse the bigger i am.
sidenote he says he still is very very
attracted to me he just keeps thinking of
our daughter.. make sense?
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-06-07 13:12pm
Hun,i'm not sure there really is anything
you *can* do.I would wait. . .lol,for
real,he's gontta get hrney some time
right?and he's gonna have to come and get
him some! lol just keep reassuring him
that the baby is fine and not to think
about it! good luck!
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ebarnhard33
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Posted: 04-06-07 13:13pm
My husband has no problems about having
sex while I'm pregnant. In fact, he thinks
it's pretty hot .
But a lot of guys feel the same way your
husband does. Which, if you think about
it, is pretty funny because there is *no
way* the baby can see or know what's going
on. The cervix is closed and plugged with
mucus, so nothing can get in or out. I
don't know if there's anything you can do
to make him feel better about it... just
explain to him that the baby has no idea
what's going on and that sex is in no way
harmful to the baby. Good luck to you, i
know i couldn't last the rest of my
pregnancy with no sex!
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-06-07 13:24pm
maybe next time you go to the doctor,bring
him with you and ask the doc in front of
him if anything bad will happen!
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Mommy35
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Posted: 04-06-07 13:58pm
LOL, what is he going to do after you have
her and she's sleeping in the same room
with you? Rest assured there will be a
time when you think your baby is asleep,
and you and him will start doing the deed
and one of you will look over and see her.
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ladylee70
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Posted: 04-06-07 14:20pm
I can relate. It could be worse, though. I
was instructed by the doctor to have NO
SEX until this baby is born due to
pregnancy complications. I was first
instructed at 13 weeks....now that is
hard!
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Posted: 04-06-07 15:19pm
ladylee70
wrote:
I can relate. It could be
worse, though. I was instructed by the
doctor to have NO SEX until this baby is
born due to pregnancy complications. I was
first instructed at 13 weeks....now that
is hard!
hahah omg id die!! im seriously like a 16
year old boy right now which is why this
is so rough. Hes been to every doctors
appointment.. I dont think hes afraid of
hurting her its just the idea of it? who
knows lol..shessh men..how does he think i
feel when shes kicking me while were doing
it lol.
im now really scared what hes going to be
like after being in the delievery
room............ well we did it this
morning.. haha i guess it is true that i
just have to wait until hes horney
enough.. whats sad is he feels so bad
about telling me that. errr i already am
not a huge fan of pregnancy and this is
making it worse.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 04-07-07 14:15pm
.Dom is sex mad but won't have sex with me
because he thinks something could happen.
I've told him so many times that nothing
is going to happen to .Mika, showed him
books which say the same and even got my
midwife to explain to him that nothing can
go wrong but he just can't do it, he hates
being able to feel his daughter while he's
having sex
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Posted: 04-07-07 19:31pm
It feels so good to hear someone else say
it! lol
yeah i tried to have "a talk" about it
last night..Didnt work ..damnit! haha i
need to get laid!
hate to break it to him but come july when
im dying for her to come out were doing it
wheater he likes it or not.
good luck!
.
But a lot of guys feel the same way your
husband does. Which, if you think about
it, is pretty funny because there is *no
way* the baby can see or know what's going
on. The cervix is closed and plugged with
mucus, so nothing can get in or out. I
don't know if there's anything you can do
to make him feel better about it... just
explain to him that the baby has no idea
what's going on and that sex is in no way
harmful to the baby. Good luck to you, i
know i couldn't last the rest of my
pregnancy with no sex!
