Confused Pregnant Teen

I don't think a pool was your best idea in honesty because a decision like this can only be made from your heart. for some adoption is right, for another abortion and some keep the baby. I can only tell you what i did, i'm 15 and 29 weeks pregnant, i hope this helps you.

this is a pregnancy support forum.
abortion will not be suggested or supported in here.
there is an abortion forum on this site where you will not be judged for your choice and will be given support in your decision.

please do not ask others to make this choice for you - for this reason I have removed the poll.

Well I decided last night I wanted to keep it and he said that was really what he wanted to and that we just had to start looking for a place and buying everything needed.

Congrats on your decision and pregnancy. I hope everything goes well for you. I know you are young, but things always have a way of working out for the best in the end.

As for the necessities for the baby, you can try consignment shops. They usually have a lot of really nice used stuff. A lot of it, you can't even tell is used.

Good luck to you.

wow i'm not sure i can help you out with that! it's really up to you! i'm inlove with my baby inside me. although this pregnacy was unplanned for us, god has insured me that this baby is planned! everything always happens for a reason! everyone here will prob. tell you to keep it because we are all preggo here and have grown attached to our babies! maybe you should post this topic in another forum, you might get better responses! but good luck on whatever you decide to do. if you need to talk PM me

i am glad you decided to keep it. like the others have said we will never say anything but to keep it. especially when you go to the Dr and they do an ultrasound and you see your little baby bean, it is awesome!
are you still in high school? or graduating in a few?
it will all work out and you are just meant to be a young mom, at least you will bounce back quicker!

im 18 and i have a 5 month old baby boy, if you ever need someone to talk to that you can relate to im here. i will tell you being a young mom isnt always easy but i wouldnt trade it in for the world, i love my son! Even if im going to graduate late it dosnt matter to me (that much) because i have something way more beautiful then grad, and thats my son and boyfriend

and your son is sooo cute just wann kiss those sweet cheeks of his

Im 16 So its really good to hear about teens that are as confused as me.

I as well have my boyfriend behind me.
he helps me with my decions and things.

but i really joined this chat thing cuz im terrified about being pregnant
so i really need some support my boyfriend is not enough not matter how much i want him to be but i do love him

huh?

Kia is saying that a due date is only estimated, it is not an exact science. Your estimated due date is worked out by counting forward 40 weeks from the date of your last menstrual period, so it's something that's worked out early on. Of course, the baby could arrive early or late.

i had my first when i was 18 a month after turning actully i didnt have much help my mom was a drug addict and my father a loser but my bf and his family took me in now iam 23 and having my 3rd its hard at first but belive me this is why we are here and my life would never have been this great or fun for that matter had i chosen not to have her now shes five and in kindergarten my bf and i have been togather 7yrs and have had another little girl whos 2 now so u see things will fall into place for u good luck

i had my first when i was 18 a month after turning actully i didnt have much help my mom was a drug addict and my father a loser but my bf and his family took me in now iam 23 and having my 3rd its hard at first but belive me this is why we are here and my life would never have been this great or fun for that matter had i chosen not to have her now shes five and in kindergarten my bf and i have been togather 7yrs and have had another little girl whos 2 now so u see things will fall into place for u good luck

I can tell you that children are the most magnificent and humbling creatures on the face of the planet. Nothing in the world-not stories, classes, education, or a Master's degree in child development (like mine) can truly prepare you for your life with children. So when I or other people tell you how much your life will change when you have a child, don't just smile and nodd. take what they say and then magnify it bu 10,000 fold. Having children means wearing your heart on the outside of your body for the rest of your life. It is not something to be taken lightly. If you decide to do this, which it sounds like you have, prepare to give your whole self to loving and caring for this baby. There is no going "halfsies" on this. It's all the way. I would suggest that you see a doctor or midwife right away, and be sure to make every prenatal appointment. Educate yourself thoroughly about your birth choices. Attend some childbirth education classes that offer different points of view. Eat healthy. Get plenty of rest. enjoy this tiime before your baby comes, not only to prepare a place of love in your home, but also to enjoy your life before children with your bf before the baby arrives. The nicest thing that I did before my first child arrived was we went to a beautiful bed and breakfast for a long weekend. He rubbed my feet and got me a massage. We slept late and took long walks. It is one of my fondest memories.

i am glad that u made the right decision.
I am 15 and 10 weeks pregnant and i also
have a boy aged 2. In a 7 year relationship.no
parents as they are dead,partner only got a mom.
Anyway, good luck.