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Re:egg Donation Posted: 04-12-07 07:28am
Shanyan
wrote:
When I began the whole
experience of being an egg donor I wasn't
sure how I was going to feel. I had to
meet with counsellors to see if I was
mentally fit to go through the process.
Obviously I was because I did it but it
wasn't easy. I had to do lots of fertility
drugs and it was a painful experience
during the egg retreval (sorry for the
spelling) But I am happy that I did it
because i made my aunt the happiest woman
in the world. When i watched the baby
being born I cried more than I did for my
own 2 children's birth and I'm not too
sure why that is. It was just very
emotional for me. I know that I do not
have a bond with that baby like her mother
does but I really feel like I love her in
a special way. Nobody can really say how
they would feel seeing their "offspring"
look up at you but then knowing that that
baby will never be yours, especially when
she looked exactly like my daughter. I had
no idea that I would feel this way until
she was born. It is definitely getting
easier!
thats a very cool ting
you did hun! I thin maybe if I was in your
position I might understand the
feeling,but I have bever been there so I
guess its the reason my outlook on it is
different!