Boyfriend Wants to Watch Girlfriend Stimulate Another Man Posted: 04-10-07 18:40pm
I've been dating this guy for six months
and he seems to have a strange habit.
While having sex, he likes to hear about
my past sexual encounters with guys in
explicit detail and tells me he wants me
to pleasure another man and tell him about
it. It seems the only way he climaxes is
if we are engaging in this erotic fantasy
talk, but now I think he really wants me
to engage in sexual acts with other men to
provide new material for his mental
masturbation. I believe an exgirlfriend
had gotten him into this, but I am not at
all comfortable with this and wonder if
there is any way to reprogram his mind
from this habitual way of thinking to
enjoy sex without feeling the need to hear
me share my sexual past with him...please
any advice would be appreciated.
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Fairy Godmother
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Had to Jump On This One! Posted: 04-10-07 18:54pm
If this man is at all interested in you or
cares the one little bit, he will be
willing ot listen to what you are saying.
That this type of sexual behavior is
making you uncomfortable. Of course he'd
love to have all of this come true.why
else would a man even want you to say such
things during an intimate moment of just
the two of you. Just my opinion, but if he
is not willing to re'generate his ways of
"climaxing" I'd say RUN LIKE
HELL.........but thats jut my OPINION!
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Sunflower_pie81
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Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
Posted: 04-10-07 19:33pm
I wouldn't like this either...I
agree...with Fairy*Godmother. If it seems
like this is the only way he can climax
then something is wrong...I think that you
need to sit and talk to him...I wouldn't
like this...if it didn't change....runn
like hell to put it gently. lol
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 04-10-07 20:59pm
I wish that my partner was like that......
Seriously though, I don't think there is
anything inherently wrong with what he
wants, but I also certainly do not think
there is anything wrong with your being
uncomfortable and unwilling. It's just
two preferences that aren't the same.
People deal with differing preferences all
of the time. Sometimes it is enough to
end the relationship, and other times it
can worked out just fine. If you really
feel uncomfortable, don't give in. Like
the others said, talk to him about it. Be
honest. Try couples counseling if you two
can't work it out yourselves. Keep in
mind that if he is really unwilling to
listen and try to respect your wishes,
that says something about him. Good luck.
