Im Pregnate...and He Dont Want to Be Apart of It!

Hey thats really sad, all you should know is that God doesnt put anything in your path unless he believes you can handle the situation everything is gonna be alright. I promise. The ones who truly love you will always be there for you and it might be hard to see that and to figure out who those people are but believe me they are standing right in front of you and thats your family. Have faith!! Believe in yourself. Live for you and your coming new born.GOOD LUCK!! AND GOD BLESS!!!

have you talked to your parents yet?? I would also see a lawyer about getting child support from him and any other info they might be able to help with.

once that sweet baby arrives they will forget all about the child being mixed. my dad was the same way until my daughter was placed in his arms and his heart melted 10 years later they are still best of buds. and my child is better off not nowing her dad and my parents and i never bad mouthed about him in front of her she aks questions and i honestly answer them as best as i can and no lying to her. trust me it will be ok someday hun just trust in your self ok. and us ladie will always be here to help as much as possible.

have you told his parents, if his parents won't give you his number i'd suggest you tell his parents. thats just me! good luck

Life goes on sweetie, believe me. I'm 15 and my parents flipped when i told them and now i have to stop my mum from buying little outfits and blankets etc for my little girl. And at the end of the day a baby is a baby whether it's balck, white, mixed race or purple with pink spots, it is your parents flesh and blood too so i'm sure that will win out over the fact that your baby is mixed race.

My friend had a baby this summer when she was only 19. The father did not care about her at all and was into drugs, alcohol, plus he was abusive. As soon as her baby came, he was around for 3 weeks and then left her. This baby is the smartest sweetest baby, that would no doubt be affected by the negative influence of the father. You should focus on the fact that if you are keeping the baby that you have someone else to think about now. I am sure you are scared, but you can't change that the baby is coming now so take care of yourself and try not to stress yourself so much over how this man is treating you. I would suggest requesting child support and having him terminate his rights if he won't pay. It is a terrible thing that he did this to you, but your baby will change your views once you come and you'll realize that maybe it is for the better. Keep up hope and one day you will meet the right person. My friend is sooo much happier now that the father is not involved because he was a terrible person. Sometimes she is lonely because she no longer has a boyfriend, but her baby makes her smile everyday and she knows that one day she will meet the right person.