oh_mommy
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Going Insane
Posted: 04-12-07 12:21pm
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i cant stop crying, i feel like crap, i
need to make bottles and reese wont stop
crying, im *really* angry at shawn right
now, because i told him i need some sleep
and he kept waking me up and he kept
waking me up all last night to tell me im
snoring (cause im sick) or im breathing in
his face.. nothin i do for reese is
working, and i cant take it i even yelled
at hinm and told him tyo shut up, and now
i feel like dirt for doing it.. i feel
like shawns and my relationship is slowly
dieing. and he knows i feel like this but
he isnt doing caca all about it. the other
day i said he loves cars more then me..
and i got him to pretty much admit it, and
when i would say "See you admited it" he
would be all like "no i didnt mean it like
that your taking it all wrong, my family
comes first hunny" saying it so sincere,
but i unno i just dont believe him. all he
ever does is talk about cars, he never
talks about how he wants to get married,
how he wants to do stuff in the future its
all "im gonna do this to the car and once
i get the money this. this and this!" im
getting so pissed off. he comes home from
work and hes all like "why arnt the dishes
done, why havnt you done this" so i ask
him to and he says "i work all day im not
coming home to do stuff i need to relax"
what does he think i do all day, i do my
schooling, im taking care of reese and
when he gets home he expects me to be
watching reese cleaning up after him and
reese, making dinner and all that kinda
crap at once, i cant do that, im not super
man. help me!!
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-12-07 12:24pm
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I'm sorry your feeling so overwhelmed. It
doesn't help any that your sick. Can your
mom or a friend watch reese for an hour or
so, so that you can take a nap or a bath?
~Big hug~
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mamaTT
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Posted: 04-12-07 12:29pm
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I'm sorry you're feeling so down sweetie.
Do you have someplace else you can go for
a few days? Maybe if he comes home and
you and .Reese aren't there, it will be
the wake up call he needs. It sounds like
he a lot of growing up to do, if all he
can think about is his car. When you have
a family, as long as it's reliable enough
to get you where you need to go and back
should be enough. Hang in there sweetie.
I hope things get better for you.
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 04-12-07 12:56pm
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i dont have anywhere to go, otherwise
iwoulda done that. i have no1 to watch
reese right now everyone is working and i
dont trust my mom with him.. i wish i
could pawn him off on someone right now im
so stressed i just need to relax, and let
myself cry out all my pain but i cant....
I finnaly did the bottles, i just forced
myself to let reese cry and he fell
asleep, so im pretty happy about that, i
still feel like crap though, and im still
crying. my throat hurts from crying even
thou im not making any noise. i sent shawn
a text message telling him i feel like
crap and that reese wouldnt stop crying
and all he said back was "hows he doing
now" pfft.. i know he loves Reese, but
sometimes i feel like the only thing that
matters tohim is reese and the car.. and
im at the end somewhere.
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 04-12-07 13:51pm
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welcome to the mans world hunny. my dh
says the same thing he is gone at work and
i am home 24/7 with the 3 kids and their
school schedule my sons therepy schedule
and dr appt. after school programs and
errands and all the house work plus i
babysit 7 other kids to top it off. so
what if the house isnt clean i tell him if
you want it clean all the time then start
helping and pick up after yourself. I am
so sorry you feel this way hun but you are
a great mom and it isnt easy with a baby
school and a house plus a man. I do hope
it gets better for ya.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-12-07 13:58pm
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I'm sorry hun.I would so be gone.I would
tell him if thats all he cares about then
fine,he can have it! He is not being right
to you.when he says I need to come hom ena
drelax because I was at work all day,tell
him you were too-taking care of his child
and you need a break.i hope things get
better!
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Mommy35
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Posted: 04-12-07 16:20pm
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It sounds like you have a full plate, and
anyone would be overwhelmed with it.
School, a baby, a home, and an old man.
That's a lot, and you should pat yourself
on the back for being able to handle it.
You are forced to be the adult, because
you have most of the responsibiltiy. Not
to compare you with me, but I had my
daughter when I was 18, and I was forced
to grow up really fast, while my friends
were out partying and being young, I was
changing diapers, doing midnight feedings,
and being a mommy. Even her father (I
call him the donor), didn't do crap. I
look back on it now, and it made me a
stronger person, just like it will you.
Some men take longer to grow up than women
do. It will get better, but it may take a
couple of years for it to happen.
Stay strong and give yourself a pat on the
back!!!
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 04-12-07 16:53pm
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thanks girls, i dont know what i would do
without you!!! reading all those posts
made me teary eyed... maybe im just being
hormonal (just finnished af)
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 04-12-07 18:13pm
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hormonal or not we love ya. hang in there
hun 
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 04-12-07 18:40pm
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| candita sky
wrote: | | hormonal or not we love ya.
hang in there hun |
thanks 
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 04-12-07 18:59pm
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you are ever so welcome hunny
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 04-12-07 19:22pm
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god i feel so much better now, Shawns
sister took reese around 2 so i could do
dishes and havea shower. i feel soooo
soooo much better now. but i want another
shower  i
wish we had a hot tub that would be sooo
sooo nice!
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 04-12-07 19:33pm
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oh i wish i had that too we only have a
pool but cant use it till it gets warmer
darn it. yay for you getting some you time
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 04-12-07 19:36pm
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yeah, i wish i had money so i could go to
the pool and go in the sauna and the hot
tub and steam room.. oh man im melting
thinking about it.... ahhhh 
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-13-07 07:50am
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well I don't think you were over
reacting.I think it wuold help if he did
some things around the house since you
have so much to fit into your schedule.he
needs to learn its not *your* baby,it's
both of yours and he needs to help,not
just go to work.hopefully he will
learn.good luck girl and i'm glad you got
a break!
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