I Need Some Help On This Father Stuff... Posted: 08-28-03 15:42pm
Guys say that when the baby is born....The
guy starts to feel neglected.?...Is there
any way that I wont feel like that ? I need some
advice
....Thanx
__notorious__
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-29-03 00:03am
But the question is that are u feeling
that way? If u are, then why is that?
What is she doing or not doing now that
were different from before?
I mean a baby is in her stomach and it's a
pretty difficult thing to deal with, plus,
pregnancy comes with lots of emotional,
physical, and mental difficulties.
So if she is just not caring u as much?
Not doing things with u? Think about that
she has a little life inside of her, and
she needs ur 100% support, at the same
time, u will then need to tell her how u
feel at times, becoz she might overlooks
ur problems becoz pregnancy seems to her
is a bigger problem.
If she is busy with the unborn a bit too
much, then u need to make some friends, go
out with the guys, and just doing what u
do for fun, but then also come home to her
in a supportive way.
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sazz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 23
Posted: 09-09-03 20:33pm
Hey Im
sorry to tell you this but when the mother
of your child gives birth to your baby,
you may feel neglected and left out, my
word of advice is that she is going to
need you, no matter how many times she
says she can cope. Its hard work bringing
up a child that you cant hand back at the
end of the day. Your support will be
greatly appreciated and that way you may
not feel left out.
Talking from personal experience, with my
pregnancy I told my boyfriend not to worry
to much about feeling left out and in
return he made himself always there and
helpful.
Good luck!!
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__Notorious__
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2003 Posts: 31 Location: Lawton,Ok
Thanx Alot For the Advize ! Posted: 09-10-03 16:47pm
I thank u for the advize....It helped
much......
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Missa
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2003 Posts: 5 Location: Canada
Posted: 09-11-03 18:57pm
Well you should be admiered for staying
tru to her! Second don't worrie because
dad's are the best things and if you do
feel pushed don't worrie your turn is for
when they come to you in need, graduation,
marrag, and there own little ones! It
will be you they charish for life!
? I need some
advice 
....Thanx
Im
sorry to tell you this but when the mother
of your child gives birth to your baby,
you may feel neglected and left out, my
word of advice is that she is going to
need you, no matter how many times she
says she can cope. Its hard work bringing
up a child that you cant hand back at the
end of the day. Your support will be
greatly appreciated and that way you may
not feel left out.
