I had my daughter a year and a half ago, naturally. She weighed 5 lbs, 2 oz. After her birth, I always had thought I was "loose," bcuz' I couldn't feel my boyfriend while making love. But came to realize that if I would put my finger inside, I could feel all sides of my vaginal wall tightly against my finger... I'm tired of living this way, I don't get pleasure out of sex anymore, all I can feel is pressure when he's inside me. I'm not so sure if I should go to a doctor,

but could this have anything to do with getting the epidural? Or maybe just pushing her out, gave me severe nerve damage?? Opinions plz!!

Thnx!!