mc4ever02
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Baby Shower
Posted: 04-13-07 14:41pm
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Would you feel comfortable going to an
ex's baby shower? 
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arcadia
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Posted: 04-13-07 15:44pm
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huh? your ex is having a baby shower? is
your ex a girl or a guy? lol, sorry if
that sounded stupid or rude. no
intentional.
if you mean an ex boyfriend's
girlfriend/wife/whatever is having a baby
& i was invited to her shower.. then i
guess it depends on the situation &
how it ended with my ex & stuff. if we
were on good terms & everything was
behind us, then i would feel alright
going.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-13-07 15:47pm
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LOL yeah...I guess that was alittle
cryptic.
My ex and his pregnant girlfriend are
having a baby shower. We did not end on
good terms (we ended with a pregnancy
scare 
) But we are of okay terms now. I
dunno...it's just kinda weird. I don't
think I ever really forgave him....I dunno
I should be over it. I'm just confused.
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Mommy35
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Posted: 04-13-07 16:01pm
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Yes, but it would depend on how it ended.
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JasmineGreen4179
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Posted: 04-13-07 16:17pm
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I went to my ex's wedding....just for sort
of a closure type thing I suppose! We
really didn't end on good terms(he cheated
and got the girl prego!) We are fine
now...I guess it would all depend on how
you felt and if you would be comfortable
in that situation.
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 04-13-07 16:19pm
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yeah i would go just so i could punch my
ex in the face 
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JasmineGreen4179
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Posted: 04-13-07 16:23pm
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Heehee...I wanted to punch his face
in....but I refrained and just stayed by
the beer keg all night!
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 04-13-07 18:18pm
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i think it would be weird unless everyone
ended as wonderful happy friends.
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Posted: 04-13-07 20:17pm
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If you are over him then I don't see why
not. Me and my ex are on good terms and I
know that I would go to his girlfriend's
shower. Heck, I would go to his wedding
but I think that we have a really neat
friendship now.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 04-13-07 20:28pm
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Does she know you're invited?
If they honestly invited you to be nice
and not to cause drama, I don't see the
harm in going... if you feel like it, that
is. If you don't want to be there, I would
suggest apologizing in advance but buying
something off their registry anyway. If
you know anyone else that's going to the
shower, maybe they can bring it for you
along with a nice "wish I could be there"
card.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-13-07 20:33pm
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Oh don't get me wrong I will definitely
buy a gift. And I will be actively
involved in his son's life. My mom and
stepdad are going and I will be sending
our present with them.
I don't think they would invite me to
start drama. (More because they have to)
But I know that she doesn't like me.
I don't think I'm going to go. I think I
would just be to uncomfortable.
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 04-13-07 22:08pm
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Is this the step-brother guy you were
telling us about? if that were the case, I
might go. But you said she doesn't like
you, so 'eh...maybe I wouldn't go.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-13-07 23:10pm
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Yeah, it's the step brother. So that is
kinda why I'm torn. Its family (kinda) so
it's rude if I don't go. But I don't want
her (or me) to feel akward. Its her day
and I don't want to take away from it. I
should be the last thing on her mind.
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Posted: 04-14-07 20:19pm
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| mc4ever02
wrote: | | Yeah, it's the step brother.
So that is kinda why I'm torn. Its family
(kinda) so it's rude if I don't go. But I
don't want her (or me) to feel akward. Its
her day and I don't want to take away from
it. I should be the last thing on her
mind. |
wait you dated your step brother? im a
little lost..
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-15-07 11:59am
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| Nataliachick7
wrote: | | mc4ever02
wrote: | | Yeah, it's the step brother.
So that is kinda why I'm torn. Its family
(kinda) so it's rude if I don't go. But I
don't want her (or me) to feel akward. Its
her day and I don't want to take away from
it. I should be the last thing on her
mind. |
wait you dated your step brother? im a
little lost.. |
Yeah..It's a long story so bear with me.
I was dating this guy. My mom was single
and his dad was single. We figured that if
we set them up we would be able to see
each other more. (we really didn't think
things through.
) Anyways, are parents fell in love and
they have been married for 6 years now. So
we were in *no* way related when we dated.
He was also first (and the only, other
than my dh) I coinsidentaly developed an
ovarian cyst the same month. Being as
young and uneducated as I was on the
subject I figured that I was pregnant ( I
was three mo late by the time I told my
mom) When I told him, he flipped and told
me that he was to young to handle that.
(He is two years older than me). It was
ugly. But he has apologized numerous
times. But I don't think I ever really
forgave him. That is why I'm hesitant to
go to the baby shower. Basically,
immaturity
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