for the past couple months i've been
talking to a friend i know back in high
school. we would hangout go to movies
with friends and stay up late talking on
the phone till we fell asleep. 4 weeks ago
we had, or at least i thought we had, a
really great day together. we spent all
day watching movies, talking about
everything, i even held her in my arms. i
knew i liked her but after that day i was
in love. she was the only thing i could
think about, i know it sounds corny but
its true. the next week i learned she was
going to austin tx, we live in fort worth
tx, for the sxsw festival with some
friends. she invited me down, and i
happily accepted. i swear on every once of
blood in my body that, that was the best
week of my life. long story short we saw
some bands, and hung out in austin all
week and had a good time. when i get back
to my apartment i decide that i'm going to
tell her how i feel, like it wasn't
obvious or anything! a little off topic,
but i just had some extreme deja vu. so i
call her to see if she would to go
somewhere with me, and she declines my
invite, i don't see or talk to her much
for two weeks. i finally catch her at
home, by this point my love for this girl
is eating me alive, so i begin to tell her
how i feel and she's speechless, not in a
good way. she starts telling me that were
too good of friends for her to love in
that way, so i take it and leave it at
that. that was 2 weeks ago and still she
doesn't talk to me as much i hardly see
her, take that back i never see her. im
just really sad, and confused. i still
love her but she doesn't love me. if
anyone has any advice im open to anything.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 04-13-07 18:10pm
oh well if she doesn't like for more than
a friend then so be it. Just keep being
her friend like that. And do not pressure
her ever. Maybe later on she changes her
mind but if you pressure it guaranteed
that you will scare her away. Meantime if
I were you I would date other people.
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Akkette
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Joined: 14 Apr 2007 Posts: 50 Location: Australia
Posted: 04-17-07 09:40am
It is sad when someone does not love you
back, You need to make a decision if you
want to remain friends with her (could be
very hard) or if you want to cease the
friendship. If you decide to keep the
friendship you need to make sure you dont
make any further moves on her as it may
scare her away.
Good Luck
Natalie
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 05-02-07 08:27am
Akkette
wrote:
It is sad when someone does
not love you back, You need to make a
decision if you want to remain friends
with her (could be very hard) or if you
want to cease the friendship. If you
decide to keep the friendship you need to
make sure you dont make any further moves
on her as it may scare her away.
Good Luck
Natalie
I agree.I think you have
a right to be upset,she pretty much lead
you on letting you hold her and such.I
would forget her.
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paul995
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Joined: 22 Apr 2007 Posts: 140 Location: ,
Posted: 05-02-07 18:36pm
Ture, I agree with the resto of you guys.
You can't never force someone to love you
in return. At least, you've been honest to
her and she was also honest to tell you
what she feels.
Don't pressure her. Probably she found
something in you the reason why she wants
to go out with you. She has found a friend
in "you" and i believe if it continues
this way, then you'll be getting a
relationship that's more than the romantic
one. GOOD LUCK!
