i don't know birch and I understand that
men are wired to spread it around but i
think that just not all men are wired that
way. See my best friend she is indian and
she married this guy she met since
kindergarden. So they were all their life
together. None of them ever had any other
relationship except them. Can you imagine?
They got married quite young and they have
been married for more than 10 years
already and you have to see how much they
love each other. I have to say that I some
point i envy her in the sense that she
never knew what is a breakup, never known
what is having a heart broken due to love.
Wouldn't that be
nice?
I think that is very sweet.
Actually, I am really grateful for all the
experiences I've had in love. I think it
makes me a more empathetic person. I
would not wish away the one gigantic
heartbreak I had in my life at all.
Because of that experience, I know what
it's like, and I think it is a good thing
to know.
On the other hand, you're friend's story
is very cute and sweet. I hope they
continue to be happy together.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 05-03-07 22:22pm
Birch
wrote:
nightangel73
wrote:
i don't know birch and I understand that
men are wired to spread it around but i
think that just not all men are wired that
way. See my best friend she is indian and
she married this guy she met since
kindergarden. So they were all their life
together. None of them ever had any other
relationship except them. Can you imagine?
They got married quite young and they have
been married for more than 10 years
already and you have to see how much they
love each other. I have to say that I some
point i envy her in the sense that she
never knew what is a breakup, never known
what is having a heart broken due to love.
Wouldn't that be
nice?
I think that is very sweet.
Actually, I am really grateful for all the
experiences I've had in love. I think it
makes me a more empathetic person. I
would not wish away the one gigantic
heartbreak I had in my life at all.
Because of that experience, I know what
it's like, and I think it is a good thing
to know.
On the other hand, you're friend's story
is very cute and sweet. I hope they
continue to be happy
together.
how was that heartbreak? I guess it is a
good way to look at it that about becoming
empathetic with the bad experiences but
somehow I still wished i didn't had gone
through them. I believe the one that
shocked me most was a bf i had who left me
after a year together with an email. We
never even fighted the whole year so i was
clueless as to why he wanted to break up.
Aside of loosing him what i felt worst is
the way of the breakup. Just an email.
Couldn't believe a man to be that coward.
But thankfully at least i never had a
breakup due to cheating.
Yes, my friend story is very sweet. But
you know she went through sad experience
too (like we really are no exempt to
pain). You can imagine this loving couple
like that, she lost her first baby. Means
the baby lacked oxygen during birth (i
think due to umbilical cord stuck) and the
baby died 20 days later. She says it was
the most horrible time of her life. She
spent the full 20 days in the hospital day
and night watching over her baby. And i
tell you that is something i do not wish
to go through. The though makes me shiver.
So after that she then had two other
children, very sweet kids and is very
happy. So there you go, that's life with
up and downs.
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oxfragilerosexo
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2006 Posts: 210 Location: Jacksonville florida
Posted: 05-09-07 22:48pm
Birch
wrote:
Dannzibelle
wrote:
Birch
wrote:
Dannzibelle
wrote:
100% agree with you.
Abortion is not something that i would
personally do and i don't understand why a
woman
would continually have unprotected sex if
they don't want a baby but this does
happen and it will do for as long as
abortion
exists
And how often does this happen? Does
anyone know, or is this just another
sweeping generalization without any facts
to back it
up?
It's not hard facts or stats but i know of
one girl who's had 3 and two otheres who
have had 2
Why do you think these girls have had
multiple abortions?
No access to birth control?
Self esteem issues?
Poor parental involvement?
Uneducated?
Birth control failed?
Do not see abortion as the evil entity
many in society do?
Coercion by boyfriend/family?
There's a plethora of reasons women/girls
may have multiple abortions. Since you
said "I don't understand why" I'm trying
to point out some
reasons.
My aunt has had seven or 8 of them just
because she did not use protection and
just was like whatever screw it.
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Jincks013
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Posted: 05-09-07 23:20pm
Quote:
Do not see
abortion as the evil entity many in
society do?
LMAO.. as poor attempts at semantic
manipulation and inaccurate information go
this does rate in the top 25!!
Tell me though.. since no one else who is
pro fetal life seems to be able to..
How exactly does gestating solve the
problem? How does gestating solve any of
the problems?
No access to birth control?
Self esteem issues?
Poor parental involvement?
Uneducated?
Birth control failed?
Coercion by boyfriend/family?
Please.. someone PFL .. explain to me what
magic wand gestating waves that solves
these and other complex issues that are
some of the most quoted reasons women
choose to abort.
Anyone?
