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Q: In Need of Terrible Help
asked by: Sexy Babe on April 14th, 2007
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Well This Is Very Hard For Me And I Just Don't Know What To Do So I Wondering If It Wold Be Possible For You To Help Me Since Ya'll Are So HelpFul.
Well I Started My Period On The 6th Of Feb, And I Had Sex On The 16 Of Feb, With My Boyfriend Now The Tuning Point Is That I Had Sex 7 or 8 Days Later On The 23rd Of Feb, With My Ex-Boyfriend And They Both Didn't Have A Condom So Now Im Pregnant And Im About 7 or 8 Weeks Pregnant But I Had Went To The Emergency On The 22 Of Feb, For An Bad Bladder & UTI Infection I Had In My Vagina So They Gave Me To Antibiotics is it possible they could have cought that.. And Im Hopeing You Could Help Me Get It Together On When Was Fertialition or Ovulation Because I'm Stressing And Lost And Hopeing To Seek Some Ones Guide.
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chick1978
replied on April 14th, 2007
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I am thinking that if you are pregnant there is a greater possibiloty of it being your boyfriends.

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Idony
replied on April 14th, 2007
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what spesific questions are you asking, your kinda all over the place there

if your asking whos baby it is, no one can tell you that, especially considering there was only a week inbetween the two, why do people not think of the consequeneces and just keep it in their pants or only be with one person at a time at least, especially a fetile time (sorry that wasnt directed at you, just in general, there are too many people who sleep with more then one person without thinking of the consequences)

if your asking for predictions, it really could go both ways (this is all based on a 28 day cycle, if your cycles are not regualr or not 28 days that would affect the calculations) your ovulation date is about the 20th (according to my math) sperm can survive for up to 5 days, but thats a long shot, so if thats the case it may be your bofriends....an egg can survive for 2 days (i beleive) so if you ovulated a or 2 late then it could be your ex boyfriends

the only way to be sure is to have a dna test after the baby is born

now if your asking about a bladder infection and uti, it is possible to pass it to them, but it wont always happen, males get bladder infections and utis much less then women, expecially if they are cercumsized because there is nothing to keep the germs there

~alicia~
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tululabell
replied on April 15th, 2007
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it could be either of them depending on when you ovulate. you will have to have a paternity test after the baby is born to know who.
are you saying you are 8 weeks gestation? because from your last period you are about 10 weeks.
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Kia
replied on April 15th, 2007
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Re: In Need of Terrible Help
Sexy Babe wrote:
Well I Started My Period On The 6th Of Feb, And I Had Sex On The 16 Of Feb, With My Boyfriend Now The Tuning Point Is That I Had Sex 7 or 8 Days Later On The 23rd Of Feb, With My Ex-Boyfriend And They Both Didn't Have A Condom So Now Im Pregnant
see last question

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And Im About 7 or 8 Weeks Pregnant
By who's calculations?

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But I Had Went To The Emergency On The 22 Of Feb, For An Bad Bladder & UTI Infection I Had In My Vagina
You would not have a uti (bladder infection is the same thing) in your vagina

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So They Gave Me To Antibiotics is it possible they could have cought that..
YOu mean could they tell you were pregnant? not without doing a pregnancy test.
but the antibiotics may be harmful to the baby

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And Im Hopeing You Could Help Me Get It Together On When Was Fertialition or Ovulation Because I'm Stressing And Lost And Hopeing To Seek Some Ones Guide.

OK assuming a regular 28 day cycle.
ovulation would most likely have been Feb 20.
so the father is most likely the person you slept with in the 5 days prior to and including this date - (so 16-20 feb inclusive).

This makes you 7 weeks and 5 days gestation, but because of how pregnancy is calculated you would be said to be 9 weeks and 5 days.

This is a guestimate and not 100% - for that you will need to see your doctor and have a paternity test (after the baby is born).

You need to see a doctor asap to arrange your medical care - you can't pretend this is not happening.
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