Zanny
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Tmi Question..
Posted: 04-15-07 17:49pm
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I dunno why I'm posting this really..
curiosity I suppose.
I don't mean to pry into anyone's sex
lives, but I wanna know if I'm in the
minority or what. I can't orgasm from
having sex. I can achieve clitoral orgasms
(more easily on my own..  ),
and sex feels really good.. but the
pleasure never seems to go anywhere.. it
just kinda gets boring after a while.
Am I the only unlucky one?
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-15-07 17:56pm
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I'm the same way. Except having sex only
feels good about 50% of the time. I really
have to be in the mood. Otherwise, it just
hurts. That's how it has always been for
me.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 04-15-07 17:57pm
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i think only 10% of women can have a
vaginal orgasm from sex, actually. 
i didn't have an orgasm this time... it
makes him feel bad when i cant lol
i think you're normal!
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Bridget
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Posted: 04-15-07 18:01pm
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i can't have an orgasm from sex alone but
it does feel really good.
99% of the time he gets me off orally
(tmi) before we go at it, then i'll just
keep orgasming until he finishes. if it
goes on too long the pleasure becomes too
much to bear and i can't control what's
happening and it doesn't really feel good
anymore. that probably doesn't make sense.
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 04-15-07 18:04pm
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ok tmi...
when we are doing it, he rubs my clit at
the same time, and we end up having an
orgasm together.
its fun 
i dont know anyone that can have an orgasm
just from penetration.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 04-15-07 18:05pm
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i felt like a bad person because (yes i
love having sex with him) but we didn't do
it a bunch when he was here. it hurts...
its not a great feeling when it hurts lol
maybe when i get more used to it itll stop
hurting as much? i hope?
we had sex once and he got off and then a
few nights later we had sex in the car for
about five minutes before almost getting
caught and then we came home and did it in
my room and i stopped and started crying
bc i couldn't breathe (bc i was sick) so
yeah.. that's all. we did other things
though lol but i feel bad because that's
all that happened...
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 04-15-07 18:22pm
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| HcoBrunette06
wrote: | i felt like a bad person
because (yes i love having sex with him)
but we didn't do it a bunch when he was
here. it hurts... its not a great feeling
when it hurts lol maybe when i get more
used to it itll stop hurting as much? i
hope?
we had sex once and he got off and then a
few nights later we had sex in the car for
about five minutes before almost getting
caught and then we came home and did it in
my room and i stopped and started crying
bc i couldn't breathe (bc i was sick) so
yeah.. that's all. we did other things
though lol but i feel bad because that's
all that
happened... |
sex hurt me like the first 10 times i did
it. it sucked. it also hurts if i am not
lubbed enough or if im not relaxed enough
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 04-15-07 18:24pm
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yeah, we were trying new positions.. first
we'd only done missionary and me riding
him.
and then we did reverse cowgirl i
liked that one. and we did "doggy style"
or whatever, and head down ass up hahaha
wow tmi here. and those hurt sooooooo
doing it bad, i wanted to cry, those were
really painful lol
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jessesgirl
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Posted: 04-15-07 18:42pm
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I can only have one if I'm on top or from
oral sex.
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 04-15-07 18:56pm
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| IHeartMyBostonTerrier
wrote: | i can't have an orgasm from
sex alone but it does feel really good.
99% of the time he gets me off orally
(tmi) before we go at it, then i'll just
keep orgasming until he finishes. if it
goes on too long the pleasure becomes too
much to bear and i can't control what's
happening and it doesn't really feel good
anymore. that probably doesn't make
sense. |
totally understand thats how we are
before i had kids sex was never painful
not even the first time suprisingly but
now it seems like i have no personal lube
we need something to make it work
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 04-15-07 21:07pm
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If we are positioned just right i can
acheive orgasm with him on top.mostly with
oral tho he is very good at that. and i
can with toys too.
4 week dry spell is over for me  He couldnt
keep his hands off me since friday. I
finally got me some peen  sorry tmi
but im happy
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Bridget
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Posted: 04-15-07 21:17pm
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lol, sadie! hooray for peen!
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 04-15-07 21:25pm
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yay for peen sadie, im happy for you!
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jenniek
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Posted: 04-15-07 21:34pm
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I can orgasm if i'm on top. But I've found
it interesting because I used to only be
able to get there once and since i"ve had
brayden, holy heck its amazing..
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 04-16-07 08:31am
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I loooovvvveeeee orgasms arent they the
best.
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Kia
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Posted: 04-16-07 08:47am
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OK when you're on top you control the
depth of penetration so they are quite
good positions.
missionary is quite a shallow position
too.
when you get to doggy style - that means
deep penetration and that is probably why
it hurt and it's against the normal angle
of the vagina too.
In my bad girl years I had a couple of
vaginal orgasms but I think I more got off
on the "woohoo sex=love" thing than the
actual sex itself.
and normally no, there is no way I'd get
an orgasm from penetration alone.
height wise we're really bad matched for
doggy style - he's taller than me but my
legs are longer especially in the thigh
and we usually just end up in a fit of
giggles instead
by myself I can be in and out of the
bathroom in under 5 minutes lol
way tmi but that's just because I know
exactly how to hit the spot so to speak.
I like sex to be quite intensive and get
bored really quickly and easy - which
isn't fair really because Steve's more of
a take it steady guy and I'm more like "I
want it now wam bam thanks a lot see ya in
the morning"  so
one of us always has to compromise
ok what was the question again?
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Zanny
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Posted: 04-16-07 09:45am
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| Kia
wrote: | | height wise we're really bad
matched for doggy style - he's taller than
me but my legs are longer especially in
the thigh and we usually just end up in a
fit of giggles instead
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Hehe I hear you on that one.. me and
.Jonny are the same height but my legs are
longer so doggy style can be pretty
awkward sometimes. I have to be on all
fours usually.. or in a really
uncomfortable legs-bent-slightly kinda
position. Not good 
My favourite position at the moment is me
lying on my tummy with my bum raised
slightly on a pillow or something.. but I
go through phases. About a week after I
had .Jenny we had sex with me sitting on
the kitchen counter and that felt gooooood
so that became my favourite for a while.
Haha I'm obsessed.
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Posted: 04-16-07 09:56am
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I feel sorry for you guys.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-16-07 09:57am
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| jessesgirl
wrote: | | I can only have one if I'm
on top or from oral
sex. |
I wish I could have a vaginal orgasm,that
would be cool!
and tellr,the positions that hurt you
most,are the ones I *love*!lol
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