Lack of Conversation After First Time Meeting Posted: 04-16-07 08:07am
I have always had a problem with not
having anything to say to people. When i
meet ew people i can chat away for hours
but then if we meet again i find i have
nothing to say to them. I have recently
been out with someone, we had a brilliant
time when we first met but the second time
i found it hard to think of things to say.
we are meeting again this week but I am
scared I will not be abe to talk to him
about anyhting. This seems to happen a lot
of the time with people.
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Willa Weintraub
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Re: Lack of Conversation After First Time Meeting Posted: 05-02-07 08:54am
Busy B
wrote:
I have always had a problem
with not having anything to say to people.
When i meet ew people i can chat away for
hours but then if we meet again i find i
have nothing to say to them. I have
recently been out with someone, we had a
brilliant time when we first met but the
second time i found it hard to think of
things to say. we are meeting again this
week but I am scared I will not be abe to
talk to him about anyhting. This seems to
happen a lot of the time with
people.
think ahead about a few
subjects,maybe elaborate on some you
talked about before. What bth of you want
to do with your lives,what your looking
for,what you like to do for fun,what you
do for a living,how many siblings you
have, what you have a passion for but Do
*not* talk about ex's yet though,this is
too much on a second date.talk about
things you have in common.go somewhere
that you can have lots of fun and not have
to worry about talking so much.talk about
your childhood.
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paul995
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Posted: 05-06-07 02:51am
Let out all your inhibitions. Let loose
and be yourself. I'm sure it's easy to be
you. Rather than lngering on thoughts of
whether you'd be making a mistake. Just be
cautious a bit of what topics to open up.
I'm sure you are able to converse well.
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