Freaking Out About My Cousin Posted: 04-16-07 10:48am
Ok im freaking out about my cousin. It
started on New Years. We were watching
CSI. There were about 6 of us in the room
( my cousin, her brother, 2 other cousins,
my sister and me). I was sitting on the 2
seatter ( i think sopme call it a love
seat or something) and my cousin was
siting on it too. Out of nowere she
leaned over and kissed me. It wasnt the
friendly cousin peck on the cheek, it was
fullblown her tounge in my mouth kind. It
lasted for a few second and then she
backed off and watched the show. It kind
of freaked me out but i just assumed she
was curious or something and it was
nothing to worry about. Hell what 13yo
girl finds her 20 yo cousin attractive?
Anyways last week end was her brothers
birthday party. it was his 16th so there
was a big party. Tward the end of the
party we were all cleaning up. My aunt
asked me to take the garbage out and my
cousin helped. ( lot of garbage). While
we were outside she kissed me again. it
lasted for a minute or so ( i dont know
why i didnt stop it).
Im really freaking out. I mean im not
attracted to her ( for 1 shes 13, and shes
my cousin). Im afraid shes gona want more
then just kisses and i dont know how to
tell her no without hurting her.
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princessnae
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Ok.. Posted: 04-25-07 14:33pm
Well first of all what the heck are you
doing. You are 20 an adult. Don't be
alone with her no matter what. I don't
care if the pope askes you to do
something... Don't.
I honestly think you need to get a trusted
adult involved. And yea you are going to
hurt her no matter what but she needs to
understand that she can't date her cousin.
She is 13 right? In every state what you
did even though you didn't initiate it is
illegal and if things progress you will go
to jail. So please get some help.
And lastly, if she feels this comfortable
coming on to you then she may have
experienced something tramatic in her
past. so just be aware of it.
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Emma2
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Posted: 04-25-07 14:37pm
PRETTY WEIRD THAT YOU LET HER DO IT A
SECOND TIME.
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flipper
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Posted: 05-10-07 08:17am
Yeah, you have to be the one to step up
and tell her to quit. Not only that, but
I agree that you tell her parents or
something what she's doing, because for
all you know she could run around and lay
it on someone else way too old for her.
Honestly, experimenting at her age is very
common. She's just become aware of her
sexuality and wants to see how far she can
take it. That doesn't mean at all that
she's ready for sex, even if she acts like
she is. She'd probably grab a hold of
anyone right now just to test it out, and
you are "safe" to her. I'm willing to bet
the farm that what she's most interested
in is the reaction of the men around her.
See if she can actually turn them on
(little does she know, it's really no big
feat). It's exciting, new and you could
very well be the first step. If her
parents aren't made aware of the
situation, she'll be moving on to other
men in no time.
I speak from experience.
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fastlane21
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Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 18
Hi Posted: 08-03-07 17:34pm
i dont see nothin wrong with two cousins
giving a kiss pr kissing
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Posted: 01-21-08 23:07pm
whoa!..that's insane!...
you have to talk to her....
hello?!..she's 13...that's when you
experience HEART-BREAKSs......
she'll break a few hearts too....
well you should talk to her...before
it's too late...
if anyone fonds out about this..then you
are the one that's gonna get BAD vibes
from other peopel!....
stop this NOW.....
