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I Feel So Posted: 04-16-07 14:04pm
proud of myself, i set up the amoare thing
and the dresser/changer yesterday (not the
crib yet, not doing that until we move)
it was just my mum and i, we did it
ourselves (none of the guys (dh or my
brother) would help)
it was a nice thing to do, i feel like i
actualy accomplished something, ive been
having a rather crappy few weeks so it
feels nice to feel like i was useful
only about a month left now, i want her to
hurry up and come already, i need a time
machine
i hope after she is born all this
crappyness goes away, but im kinda scared
its not and im gonna have postpartem
depression or something
bleh
~alicia~
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Fairy Godmother
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Hi Posted: 04-16-07 14:29pm
You do know it is true, how you are
feeling while you are pregnant will have
an effect on the personality of your
child? If you are happy, your child will
be a happy child, but if you are sad and
dwell on sadness, your child will inherit
these traits.I know go ahead and say BULL
&**%! Try to stay positive and focus
on happy things for your little girls
sake! She will bring so much happiness to
you. There is too much sadness, depression
and ugliness inthis world already, and
this is something you can control! One
more month and you will be a
Mommy.........I was too 23 years ago and
from a voice of experience, I miss those
years..............I was in oyur boat, but
I chose to row like hell and not allow the
boat to sink! You have lots of believers
in you....hang in there grilfriend, you're
gonna be just fine! Oh, congrats on
getting the armoire together!
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bamagirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2006 Posts: 245 Location: Texas
Not True!!! Posted: 04-17-07 15:50pm
I'm not being rude but my sister-in-law
was very stressed out and not happy
through her pregnancy at all because of
alot of thing that was going on and she
had a very happy baby girl. She is two now
and all she does is smile. So that is not
true. If you are not happy it will not
affect your child at all.
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Idony
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Posted: 04-17-07 16:18pm
thank you bamagirl
fairy godmother, ive been trying not to
feel this way, but when everything in you
life seems to all be going wrong at once
its kinda hard to actualy be happy, its
easy to pretend, but all the pretend in
the world wont make it real
ive known a few people who have had a lot
of stress and had perfectly fine babies
(hell i knew someone who was in jail most
of their pregnancy then on house arrest
for the rest and still had a perfectly
wonderful baby
i know you probably didnt mean it to, but
you post made me just feel worse about
myself, telling someone who is having a
hard time that they need to be happy or
their child will suffer, does not help at
all
~alicia~
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 04-17-07 17:03pm
Alicia .Don't sweat it. With raging
hormones a pregnant woman can go from
laughing hysterically to crying, to
screaming mad in a flash. It happens to
the best of us. If our moods during
pregnancy determined the mood of our
babies, there would be lots of crying in
the world.
I'm sure your baby will be a happy sweet
little doll.
Great job on putting that stuff together.
You have more patience than I.
Good luck
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Fairy Godmother
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Me Again Posted: 04-17-07 17:47pm
Alicia, I never meant for you to take my
words the wrong way. I was merely trying
to get you out of the slump you are in. I
all too well know what depresssion is, as
I was diagnosed over 30 years ago. And
yes, I am on meds to "pretend" to be a
happy person. Actually, most of the time
I dont allow myself to "feel" anything.
Please don't feel bad about yourself and
please forgive me if what I wrote caused
you more soorow. This was never my
intentions. Hugs????????????
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Idony
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Posted: 04-18-07 12:57pm
mommy (grr i know your name, i know i do,
i just cant think of it, i wanna say it
starts with a t, but at the same time i
dont think so, bleh sorry), thanks, it
would honestly suck if your emotions had
that drastic of an effect on your
baby...and yeah, i love building things, i
have a lot of patiance when it comes to
stuff like that, other things i dont have
nearly enough patiance for however lol
fairy godmother, i know you didnt mean it
like that, its ok, i know you were trying
to be helpful, just when your in a rut its
really easy to take things the wrong way
and end up feeling worse
~alicia~
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 04-18-07 14:44pm
It's Cindy and things will get better!!!
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Idony
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Posted: 04-18-07 21:26pm
heh i knew t wasnt right, i think its your
picture, you look like someone else i
know
at least i know your sons name is
jaylon.....right? please tell me im right,
i would hate to be wrong about BOTH!
~alicia~
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 04-19-07 07:42am
Yes, my son's name is .Jaylon. He is 4
weeks and 1 day old!!!
I have a hard time remembering people's
name. I wouldn't have known yours if you
didn't sign with it.
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Idony
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Posted: 04-21-07 13:29pm
ha at least i got something right yay
meh ive always signed with my name, its a
bad habit i got from a different forum a
few years back, never stopped doing it i
guess lol
