I Have a Serious Boyfriend, But Now I Like Women!? Posted: 04-16-07 19:56pm
So, I have begun to have these feelings
and I think that I might be bisexual, but
I have never done anything with a woman
before, so I feel like I can't really
know. I have a boyfriend who I have been
with for 3 and a half years who I still
totally love and get totally turned on by
and I have no interest in breaking up with
him, in fact I have often thought about
spending my life with him, but I really
don't know what to do. For starters, I
feel like I can't spend a life time
feeling like I have this attraction to
women, but I never had the opportunity to
act on it, but at the same time I don't
want to compromise what I have. I feel
like I should tell him about the way I
feel but I don't want him to freak out. I
don't know if he would understand. In the
past he has always joked about fearing he
might loose me to a woman, because I often
comment about other women. I know people
will suggest an open relationship, but I'm
just not designed for that I wouldn't be
able to handle it. I am completely and
totally confused.
Please if anyone has ever been in a
similar experience, or has any advice...
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princessnae
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2007 Posts: 90
Talk to Him Posted: 04-25-07 14:41pm
You have been with him for 3 years talk to
him. At first he might freak out but try
and explain to him how you feel. If you
never experienced a person of the opposite
sex then those feelings may just be a what
would that be like thought. I wish you
luck and try to be open with him it might
help to write your thoughts down ahead of
time so you can get everything you want to
say out.
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