tigresacanela24
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Disgusted And P.o.'d
Posted: 04-18-07 11:17am
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*edited because I'm "letting it go"*
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:20am
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K!! You have me!!!!!
I'm so sorry your bro & sis are being
selfish!!!!!
you can .i.m/pm me if you want!!!!
Sarah
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:22am
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Hey, Sarah...I'm letting go...
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yellow ribbon
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Location: FL
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:23am
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aw k im so sorry your mother didnt make
and you have to deal with this. is there a
way to say they cant get ne thing? or is
that not possible with out a will? im
sorry u have such awful siblings who dont
care. karma will strick them and im sure
your mother is in a better place getting
to see who really loves her.
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Zanny
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:23am
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I'm so sorry you have to go through all of
this right now, I can't imagine what you
must be feeling.
I'm sorry your brother and sister are
being such jerks about everything, and I
really hope things get sorted soon.
I wish I could say something to help.. but
we're all here for you any time you wanna
vent or just need someone nice to talk
to.
<3
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:24am
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Oh .kay. Welcome back, hon, and .i'm so
sorry for your loss. It must be
devastating.  and
.i'm sorry your siblings are acting this
way. It's definitely not what you need,
especially now, and it's insulting to your
mother's memory.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:24am
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I am so sorry Kay, I am here if you need
to talk about it.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:26am
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Sweetheart, I am so sorry that you have to
go through this. It is a horrible
situation for anyone to go thru let alone
to have your "family" treat you and your
mother so horribly. The money and will
should not have even been a topic of
interest until after the funeral at least.
(unless it had to do with a living will)
Let alone to be harrasing you about it.
You need time for you right now. Not to
play banker for you siblings. Agian, I am
so sorry for your loss. If there is
anything I can do please let me know.
I am not above calling them and telling
them that I am your attorney and if they
do not stop harrasing you I will be forced
to have a restraining order put into
effect. I'll do it!
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:27am
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*all the wrong things should be ignored
because i have to "let it go"
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:28am
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*forget harassment, darlings, I'm letting
it go...
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:28am
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| mc4ever02
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I am not above calling them and telling
them that I am your attorney and if they
do not stop harrasing you I will be forced
to have a restraining order put into
effect. I'll do
it! |
good idea.
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Emma2
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:35am
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first of all, my deepest condolences.
Second, I'm sorry you have no one close by
to talk to...I'm here as well.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:47am
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-18-07 11:52am
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That isn't cruel. Its normal, especialy
the way they have been treating you. I
would have told them that is what I
wished. So your handling the situation
much better than I would.
~Big hug~
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marvinswife
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Joined: 18 Apr 2007
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Just Remeber
Posted: 04-18-07 12:02pm
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In the end..Did you do all that you could
for your mom?, did she know that you were
everything she wished you would be?, Did
she somehow know that you would do the
right thing?..If you said yes to all of
that, then what ever your siblings get or
do with your mom's Legacy just let it go.
pray on it and let it go.
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tigresacanela24
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Re: Just Remeber
Posted: 04-18-07 12:13pm
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| marvinswife
wrote: | | In the end..Did you do all
that you could for your mom?, did she know
that you were everything she wished you
would be?, Did she somehow know that you
would do the right thing?..If you said yes
to all of that, then what ever your
siblings get or do with your mom's Legacy
just let it go. pray on it and let it
go. |
my relationship with my mother was never
in question. their behavior is what i'm
venting about. people do vent sometimes.
you know, release stress? you know what,
this isn't even worth it. i've had enough
to deal with in the past week and a half
and I thought i could get rid of some
stress here. obviously i can't. i know
what my mother wanted and this wasn't it.
not two children that she didn't even have
a relationship with fighting over money
that she was saving up for herself like
curs over a bone.
i understood that I risked answers that i
wouldn't like by posting in a public forum
but if i'm understanding your message
correctly then it's beyond the pale. if
the situation were reversed how would you
feel? i hope a similar situation arises
for you and that you're told to let it go.
actually, please post it here, so i can be
the one to tell you.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-18-07 14:40pm
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I'm sorry .k.I didn't see the post but I
get the gist(I think) of what happened.It
sucks,and when push comes to shove,the
real person comes out on someone.When my
nana died my aunt/uncles were all about
the mone(one imparticular).Stay strong
girl,she's looking down to you 
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 04-20-07 17:33pm
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Aww, .k I'm not exactly sure what's going
on....i've been gone the past few days,
but I'm so sorry your siblings are
treating you this way. I'm always here if
you need to talk, or even just to yell or
vent to someone. *hugs*
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