arcadia
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Well.
Posted: 04-18-07 15:15pm
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chris & i are trying again.
we talked today & he said he's ready
& willing to get back together. i'm
not convinced it's what he really wants..
but he said he wants it to work & that
he wants to be happy with me. but i guess
the only way we'll know if it'll work is
if we try..
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Posted: 04-18-07 15:17pm
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That is such great news!!! Congrats!!!
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 04-18-07 15:20pm
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congrats krissy, good luck babe! i love
you!
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-18-07 15:20pm
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I'm so happy for you!!
Is he moving back in to your parents house
or are you moving to his place? Or are you
going to hold off moving in together right
away?
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Posted: 04-18-07 15:24pm
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Yay! I hope everything works out for you
.Krissy.
I love you and .Gabe! <3
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Posted: 04-18-07 15:24pm
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Congrats! I hope everything works out for
you guys!
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arcadia
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Posted: 04-18-07 15:32pm
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no way in hell he's moving back into my
parents! i think i'll move back into the
trailer with him. i think this will
definitely work a whole lot better if we
aren't at my parents' house.
i'm just afraid it's going to be awkward..
like, knowing that he still doesn't really
want to be with me- but we're trying to
make it work.. how are we supposed to act?
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-18-07 15:41pm
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I think it will definitly make a huge
diference with you guys not dealing with
all the drama at your parents house. I
just couldn't really think of a tactfull
way of asking without insulting you.
I'm sure he wants to be with you. If he
didn't he wouldn't be trying to work on
things and wanting to get back together.
He was already out. If he didn't want to
come back there was nothing making him.
Sweethart, your a wonderful person. Why
wouldn't he want to be with you?
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arcadia
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Posted: 04-18-07 15:45pm
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of course there's something making him
come back- his name is .gabe! lol, i think
it's a big part of why he came back. i
know he wants it to work out. i guess .i'm
just afraid that he is completely dreading
this. it's just weird.. because .i'm
assuming we won't be saying ".i love you"
& stuff.. which we've been doing for a
really long time. but he isn't sure if he
does anymore. & i don't know how
affectionate to be & blah blah blah.
i guess i should just try not to think
about it & just go with the flow &
see how it works out.
i know we really care about eachother
& i know we can be happy. when it's
good.. it's really good. i know
we're capable of being happy together. i
think somewhere deep down he really does
want to be with me. i hope so.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-18-07 15:49pm
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I see what your saying about it being
akward. 
I think that you guys will do fine. It may
take some time to work out all the kinks,
but you'll get there.
Are you guys working things out or are you
getting back together? I'm sorry for being
so nosey.
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arcadia
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Posted: 04-18-07 15:52pm
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that's okay. i don't know why .i'm
stressing so much about this. he said he
wanted to try again.. it was his decision.
so that's good. we've been getting along
really great & our communication is
better than ever. that doesn't have to
change. we just need to take it one day at
a time.
& .we're back together.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-18-07 15:58pm
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Well, I can see why you are hesitant. You
don't want to go thru it agian. But if he
is initiating all of this that should give
you some reasurance. You are 100% correct.
All you can do is take it one day at a
time.
Congratualtions agian! I wish you and
.Chris all the best.
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Posted: 04-18-07 17:00pm
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Good luck! I really hope you two are able
to work it out! Be sure to let us know how
things are going.
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Posted: 04-18-07 22:59pm
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congrats krissy! i wish you the very very
best!
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Posted: 04-19-07 06:39am
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wrote: | no way in hell he's moving
back into my parents! i think i'll move
back into the trailer with him. i think
this will definitely work a whole lot
better if we aren't at my parents' house.
i'm just afraid it's going to be awkward..
like, knowing that he still doesn't really
want to be with me- but we're trying to
make it work.. how are we supposed to act?
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I really hope things work out for your
family .Krissy 
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Posted: 04-19-07 07:30am
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i agree with mel.....i also do totally see
where youre coming from and i would feel
akward as well. take it day bybt day and
always be prepared for the worst. Good
luck sweetie.
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Posted: 04-19-07 13:18pm
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Good luck i really hope it works out for
you two, you deserve to be happy
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Posted: 04-19-07 14:02pm
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I think things have just been quite
intense and that he just needs to see what
he's missing to realise what he's got and
what he wants.
I did that to Steve quite early on in our
relationship - just felt things were too
good and so I pushed him away, then
realised that I was pushing away what I
really wanted.
I think that maybe you and he are starting
to communicate more now and I think you
are being super grown up Krissy more so than a lot
of older people would be.
I hope he figures out where he is in
himself real soon and that you can work on
this together - big props to ya.
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arcadia
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Posted: 04-19-07 14:12pm
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thanks, you guys.
he came over last night. it was only a
tiny bit awkward. gabe was asleep so we
just sat in my room looking at random
grindcore bands on .myspace & talking,
hahah. i even got a little kiss when he
went home. me & .gabe are going over
to the trailer when my sister gets home
from school with my car. i'm gonna help
him clean. wooo.
it's gonna be hard & probably a little
weird for a while - but i am confident.
i'm not going to tell him i love him. he
already knows i do. whenever (if ever) he
figures it out, .i'll let him tell me. i'm
just kinda going to follow his lead &
go by the vibes .i'm getting from him.
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